Re: Fiance keeps saying he loves me …
aah I see the problem. I will use negative terms about him so please don’t get angry. The thing is this guy has a lot of “lust” for you, he probably imagines you and the wedding night a lot of the time. He just CAN’T wait for it for obvious reasons. Guys can be very horny all the time.
He throws I love yous all the time on you, so you might show affection to him, to which he gets off. He doesn’t find this wrong, because after all you’re in a legal relationship with him … (guys imagine engagment and nikah are the same thing, the less mature ones).
So sister, you have horny teenager on your hands :D. It isn’t bad, he’ll take care of you and put your needs before him. And it isn’t his fault, he is wired that way, all of us guys are.
My advice, please please quickly get married. And if you are not comfortable about talking naughty and dirty things on the phone .. (remember this has NOTHING to do with love, only with lust and horniness, he just wants to get laid), then totally cut all communications until marriage, because its a huge torture for him to be in a state of “half-marriage” where you are official but limited.
My question, what does it take for a girl to fall heads over heel over her fiance/husband? What should he do? any tips?