Feminine Charms

[Iconoclast]

Re: Feminine Charms

@Ghost14

Ethically, it’s a bit shady that women do this but the world isn’t perfect so if other men are naive enough to get played then let them get played. Ironically, it’s as easy as turning attractive women down (playfully) and calling them out on their BS to get stuff from them (not that I do it ;)).

Women definitely have it easier in terms of getting favours from men and I think the reason for that is because men are wired to want to please (woo) women. And yes, men are scum enough that we want every attractive woman we see (just sex, not talking about emotions here). I read an interesting article about this; imagine being an attractive girl. For most of your life, almost every man you’ve met has wanted to sleep with you and treated you as if you were special. It’s almost like being a celebrity. Of course your personality is going to be affected by this.

The only place I really have a problem with women doing this is in the workplace. Anywhere else, they’re free to try, and any man who gets played should stop being a chump. There’s a simple test to see if you should go out of your way to help. Think of a girl who annoys you, who you don’t find attractive at all, and imagine that she asked you to do her favour. Would you do it?

Sometimes I feel like the person you were in high school stays with you (at least a little bit) for your whole life.

On the contrary i have seen that men with skills of trade have it much easier than charming women. Women can get small things done and get small favours but there are few men who will go too far or bestow too much on charming women and they are more concious of others noticing this behavior. On the other hand women in authority more commonly have their ‘favourites’ or ‘pets’ and are more likely to be oblivious to it and will do a lot more for their favourite male than a man would.