Feminine Charms

[muqawwee123]

Re: Feminine Charms

@redvelvet

Someone told me about how one of her friends was in an abusive marriage that she often complained about. Anyhow the woman wanted these diamond earrings and her husband had refused and she offered him the “best sex” ever…though she was miserable with him. She worked..and could eventually save up and get em herself. I wondered where her pride went…story really turned me off…it was sort of comical too how a pair of earrings can just make everything okay, lol.This thread brought that story to mind. For smaller things…I don’t really care. But for more serious situations…the manipulation makes me sick.

So Earrings and other ornaments (zevar) are like ‘Paon ki Zanjeer’ for a woman. I remember a poem from Gulzar, where he expressed different things in which relationship between a man and woman is bonded.