Re: Feminine Charms
Makes sense. But you’ve addressed that which wasn’t raised. I quoted something that suggested women seduce because they cannot command, not that seduction is rocket science, or that it doesn’t occur organically, or that men won’t respond to it.
Men do employ charm with women (because they know it works), but they don’t have to. You could argue women rely on charm because there’s a lack of perceived alternative, or a lack of capability to engage as an equal. How we project influence over others reveals a power dynamic. Just like the answer to the question “Would you rather be loved/considered attractive vs respected” is telling.
As an aside, there seems to be a running theme in all your posts - that women are indifferent to men who in turn are constantly vying for the former’s attention. Look around you. Plenty of guppans pursuing guppies and line-marring them. Far from being indifferent, we’re quite preoccupied with the opposite sex.