females cosuins texting ur husband?

[queer]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

no donno vat u meen

[Decent_6Chora]

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@STA

No, this thread is not funny. Nadz raises a good question and I believe that those messages are not decent. If that was the case her husband would reply back to everyone along with his cousin’s husband. You know what I mean.

How do you know those messages are not decent? forward me at 1-800-decent

[TLK]

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^ I wanted to ask the same question.

[Decent_6Chora]

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@TLK

^ I wanted to ask the same question.

OK. Once I have those message from STA, I’ll forward you too. Yee hamrey check keyee baghar kisi nai kisi ko not-decent message kaisey bhaij deyee eh?

[STA]

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@Decent_6Chora

How do you know those messages are not decent? forward me at 1-800-decent

did you read whole thread?

if (D6CRead(**post#22**))
{
console.writeln("**eek**")
}
else 
{
console.writeln("**How do you know those messages are not decent? forward me at  1-800-decent**")
}

[Decent_6Chora]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

“how pretty do i look in sari/slawar kamiz/black kurta etc rate out of 10”

whats non-decent in this? she is asking him to be munsif. Intehiee qabil-e-ehteram ohda.

[Sehrysh]

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@Hadeel

LOL this thread is so funny.

Why are some of you making it such a HUGE deal? Like a life or death situation. Killing people because of texts? Seriously? LOL

Or maybe I'm just too laid back :/

I think it's not that of a big deal. If HE thinks it's inappropriate, HE should talk to her and request her to not send him texts at odd hours. Why do you have to be his amma and step in? Put your phones on silent and go to sleep. There are bigger issues in life than 'rate my kapray' texts.

You know I love you right? But, I disagree.

For any other woman, a one-off incident of annoying text messages wouldn't be a big deal. But this is Nadz and her in-laws. Given their family dynamic where she's not allowed to go to the bazaar alone, where she cannot walk across the street, where she's always told that she's not in the UK and that women in Peshawar don't do such and-such, all of a sudden for her husband's cousin to send rate my shalwar texts and that too at odd hours, I'd be jumping up and down on the double-standard bandwagon.

Sending annoying joke texts, the obvious answer is to just turn the phone on silent. But to get "did I look sexy in my shalwar kameez" (and yes, I know that's an exaggeration) texts - that's wrong. Yes, her husband should have dealt with it himself, but if he didn't think it was a big deal, then if I was in Nadz's shoes, I wouldn't miss an opportunity to stick this back at the in-laws. Nadz reaction might be emotional rather than strategic in dealing with the in-law politics, but hey, Nadz is rarely ever strategic in handling her in-laws, so why start now. She might as well respond emotionally.

[STA]

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@Sehrysh

You know I love you right? But, I disagree.

For any other woman, a one-off incident of annoying text messages wouldn’t be a big deal. But this is Nadz and her in-laws. Given their family dynamic where she’s not allowed to go to the bazaar alone, where she cannot walk across the street, where she’s always told that she’s not in the UK and that women in Peshawar don’t do such and-such, all of a sudden for her husband’s cousin to send rate my shalwar texts and that too at odd hours, I’d be jumping up and down on the double-standard bandwagon.

Sending annoying joke texts, the obvious answer is to just turn the phone on silent. But to get “did I look sexy in my shalwar kameez” (and yes, I know that’s an exaggeration) texts - that’s wrong. Yes, her husband should have dealt with it himself, but if he didn’t think it was a big deal, then if I was in Nadz’s shoes, I wouldn’t miss an opportunity to stick this back at the in-laws. Nadz reaction might be emotional rather than strategic in dealing with the in-law politics, but hey, Nadz is rarely ever strategic in handling her in-laws, so why start now. She might as well respond emotionally.

I appreciate your effort that you realize her situation, but her “might be” emotional reaction is legit. I extend my words for every other women who are not in Nadz like situation, even they will get annoy if in the middle of the night their husbands got those messages from relatives. It is gross. I approve Nadz concern.

[Sehrysh]

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@STA

I appreciate your effort that you realize her situation, but her “might be” emotional reaction is legit. I extend my words for every other women who are not in Nadz like situation, even they will get annoy if in the middle of the night their husbands got those messages from relatives. It is gross. I approve Nadz concern.

Thank you for appreciating my efforts and for approving Nadz’s concern - both of our lives are complete now!

[Decent_6Chora]

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@STA

I appreciate your effort that you realize her situation, but her “might be” emotional reaction is legit. I extend my words for every other women who are not in Nadz like situation, even they will get annoy if in the middle of the night their husbands got those messages from relatives. It is gross. I approve Nadz concern.

@Sehrysh

Thank you for appreciating my efforts and for approving Nadz’s concern - both of our lives are complete now!

Let me put an effort to appreciate the efforts that you both are putting in to appreciate each others effort.

[Hadeel]

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@STA

No, this thread is not funny. Nadz raises a good question and I believe that those messages are not decent. If that was the case her husband would reply back to everyone along with his cousin’s husband.** You know what I mean. **

I don’t.

@Sehrysh

You know I love you right? But, I disagree.

For any other woman, a one-off incident of annoying text messages wouldn’t be a big deal. But this is Nadz and her in-laws. Given their family dynamic where she’s not allowed to go to the bazaar alone, where she cannot walk across the street, where she’s always told that she’s not in the UK and that women in Peshawar don’t do such and-such, all of a sudden for her husband’s cousin to send rate my shalwar texts and that too at odd hours, I’d be jumping up and down on the double-standard bandwagon.

Sending annoying joke texts, the obvious answer is to just turn the phone on silent. But to get “did I look sexy in my shalwar kameez” (and yes, I know that’s an exaggeration) texts - that’s wrong. Yes, her husband should have dealt with it himself, but if he didn’t think it was a big deal, then if I was in Nadz’s shoes, I wouldn’t miss an opportunity to stick this back at the in-laws. Nadz reaction might be emotional rather than strategic in dealing with the in-law politics, but hey, Nadz is rarely ever strategic in handling her in-laws, so why start now. She might as well respond emotionally.

Yeah I know exactly what you’re talking about. And this is why I think it will be better for her to let her husband deal with it.

I would still not mind this happening but then again I’m a laid back person. If it did annoy me to a point that I want it to stop, I’ll just have the husband take care of it. Why does she have to mess up her already messed up life?

[STA]

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@Hadeel

I don’t.

I dont want to repeat my words again and again.

@Hadeel

Yeah I know exactly what you’re talking about. And this is why I think it will be better for her to let her husband deal with it.

I would still not mind this happening but then again I’m a laid back person. If it did annoy me to a point that I want it to stop, I’ll just have the husband take care of it. Why does she have to mess up her already messed up life?

[pakistanimard]

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did someone mention a shalwar??

[SweetLady]

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It is different to a female than a male i think

If a married male gets (strange) forward messages at akward times …the relation between hubby en wife can get disturbed.

(put urself in the example if your a male and imagine if a guppan starts texting you at late night with messages like “rate me in shalwaar kameez” or " Do i look better in western or eastern outfits, jawaab lazmi" blabla…and these messages keep on comming everynight at a fixed slot, ur wife might also get doubts. It is general for males and females to react like this.

The same would be if a male texts your wife late night (fone on silent or not) (message like: " Do i look better with hairless chest or a hairy chest…Jawaab lazmi". or “Imagine me comming wet out of the shower what would you with me Jawab Lazmi”) …u can say now " Ohh nooo i am laidback, i dont care" “It;s nothing to freak about”

…But i am SURE when you r in a situation like this…you would deffo ask such questions…(mayb not on a forum, but deffo in ur mind and head )

[TLK]

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ok i guess i need to go into detail now.

its annoying because her forwarded messages r not jokes they are **how pretty do i look in sari/slawar kamiz/black kurta etc rate out of 10**...or `random suff like that.** its anoying becauses a married woman and shes sending my husband these.** i dont care wether the rest of ther world get her messages at midnight and are ok with it i am noit.

i couldnt care less whose offended. his own sister doesnt text him at midnight. end of.

secondly- yes its silent now.

all of a sudden I hate all my female cousins who never sent me such txts.

[SweetLady]

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@TLK

all of a sudden I hate all my female cousins who never sent me such txts.