females cosuins texting ur husband?

[aliyahali]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

Sounds like you like making a drama out of everything and then get confused when it backfires.

It's your husbands cousin, if there was an issue, HE should have told his cousin.

[nadz123]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

ok i guess i need to go into detail now.

its annoying because her forwarded messages r not jokes they are how pretty do i look in sari/slawar kamiz/black kurta etc rate out of 10...or `random suff like that. its anoying becauses a married woman and shes sending my husband these. i dont care wether the rest of ther world get her messages at midnight and are ok with it i am noit.

i couldnt care less whose offended. his own sister doesnt text him at midnight. end of.

secondly- yes its silent now.

[STA]

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@nadz123

ok i guess i need to go into detail now.

its annoying because her forwarded messages r not jokes they are **how pretty do i look in sari/slawar kamiz/black kurta etc rate out of 10**…or `random suff like that.** its anoying becauses a married woman and shes sending my husband these.** i dont care wether the rest of ther world get her messages at midnight and are ok with it i am noit.

i couldnt care less whose offended. his own sister doesnt text him at midnight. end of.

secondly- yes its silent now.

why dont you forward those messages to her husband, then report here.

[nadz123]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

lol.

[STA]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

lol.

I am serious. if your husband getting those messages without any bad feelings then why not cousin's husband treated same.

btw, you told us that your husband is against western culture and now his own cousin doing something which i believe is unacceptable in all cultures.

[STA]

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btw, what was the rating given by your husband out of 10.

[Shak]

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@Umer

If she was sending romantic kind of messages to your husband, it would be a matter of concern and then you would be right if you’d raise that problem. But creating such a big fuss about forwarded jokes that are sent to everyone in the family really is a non-issue. If your kids get disturbed by those SMS, there is a “Silent” option on mobile phones.

Pretty much spot on.

I don’t see what’s wrong in what she does

[McPendo]

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That's why I dont have a cell phone. No Phadda

[Le_Pakistan]

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OK SO A MARRied female cousin of my husbands sends forwaded messages all the time, not just to him, but all her cosuins.....not me though...hmmm, anyway my nand also said she sends same forwarded messages to her. thats fine. however she does this around midnight. and i dont like it. esp when kids are trying to slp, and his fones getting these messages, he hasnt saved her number so he asked me who is this number that keeps textn at night, it was hers i recnognised it. and he didnt like the late night ones either. so i asked her nicelt not to text at midnight as kids tryn slp, plus husband doesnt have female numbers saved in his fone except his sisters mum and me. she took offence and went and told this all to my nand and god know who else and thinks im unreasonable...

anyone else agree with me?

ok i guess i need to go into detail now.

its annoying because her forwarded messages r not jokes they are how pretty do i look in sari/slawar kamiz/black kurta etc rate out of 10...or `random suff like that. its anoying becauses a married woman and shes sending my husband these. i dont care wether the rest of ther world get her messages at midnight and are ok with it i am noit.

i couldnt care less whose offended. his own sister doesnt text him at midnight. end of.

secondly- yes its silent now.

You know what make me doubt your posts?

The fact that often in your first post you ask people if they agree with you. And when that is not the case, you come back later with details, which are in favour of you.

Mostly these are not unimportant details that one decides not to share in the first post.

So yes why am I even saying this.

[Le_Pakistan]

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@mirage

if the issue was the kids’ disturbance mainly, i’d rather silent the cell phone instead of telling off a cousin who I know does not have any bad intentions (she only forwards the messages and that too, to many people, right? )

I found it annoying more at your part to be so discourteous as telling her off this way. As much as she shouldn’t be really forwarding sms to her cousins, male and married too, (I wonder how does she really manage to spare time for that) but well maybe this is why she does this around midnight when she is free and can manage to do such a service to the mankind :hinna:

Ok offtopic, but that doesnt really take much time. You can send it to a lot of people on same time.

[queer]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

throw phone in mil's daal

[partyslims]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

You know what make me doubt your posts?

The fact that often in your first post you ask people if they agree with you. And when that is not the case, you come back later with details, which are in favour of you.

Mostly these are not unimportant details that one decides not to share in the first post.

THIS!!!!

It's always the same isn't it?.. some story.. then other details that magically come out which make people contradict their views.

When people hear about forwarded text messages to a group of people, they are usually jokes or other things of that nature. Not pics where it's things like *rate my hot shalwar e*tc.

Keep it up nadz <3

throw phone in mil's daal

And most definitely this!! Or substitute nand for mil in this case :)

[queer]

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lawll @ rate my hot shalwar

[STA]

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[SweetLady]

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THIS!!!!

*rate my hot shalwar e*tc.

I think she means texts like:

s New year Pe Mujhy Aap Kya Dena Chahaty Hain. Ek Number chooze karein.
1, 2, 3, 4, 5,
6, 7, 8, 9, 10
Soch lo jo number select karo gay, Wo cheez mujhy deni parey gi.
Answer:
1. Aap k Ghar Treat
2. New year card
3. Ring
4. 200 ka easy load
5. Ice cream
6. 20 mint ki call
7. Perfume
8. Flowers
9. 5 kisses
10. Ek song C.D
Or a bit extremer: Larkiyan Apna Dupatta Larkon k Samnay Aanay k Baad He Kyon Theek Karti hain? Jawab Zaror Dena. REPLY MUST.

And: Meri Ek Achi Aadat Batao? Jo Aap Chahty ho k Kabhi Change Na Ho. Ye Sab ko Send Karen Aur Dekhen k Aap k Andar Kitni Achi Aadaten Hain. But Reply Me 1st.

Dunya Main Kya Ziyada Mushkil Hai? Kisi Ka Ho Jana? Ya Kisi Ko Apna Bana Lena? What Do You Say? Reply With Solid Reason.

etc etc -- Keep getting them allllll the time from cousins in pk to --

[yourfriend]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

hmm..dont do the silent mode, just for few days leave his cell phone in your MIL's room at night...

[mirage]

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Ok offtopic, but that doesnt really take much time. You can send it to a lot of people on same time.

Still it takes time and is annoying too, I mean honestly the world wont stop if you dont send such ghissay pittaay forwarded messages for the good of all. But well I wouldnt dare telling this to my contacts who do this to me, out of fear as well as courtesy. The best I can do is NOT forwarding them anything, so maybe they will get the message that forwarding business is not my type and might stop thak haar ke.

[WendyDarling]

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I think she means texts like:

s New year Pe Mujhy Aap Kya Dena Chahaty Hain. Ek Number chooze karein. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 Soch lo jo number select karo gay, Wo cheez mujhy deni parey gi. Answer: 1. Aap k Ghar Treat 2. New year card 3. Ring 4. 200 ka easy load 5. Ice cream 6. 20 mint ki call 7. Perfume 8. Flowers 9. 5 kisses 10. Ek song C.D Or a bit extremer: Larkiyan Apna Dupatta Larkon k Samnay Aanay k Baad He Kyon Theek Karti hain? Jawab Zaror Dena. REPLY MUST.

And: Meri Ek Achi Aadat Batao? Jo Aap Chahty ho k Kabhi Change Na Ho. Ye Sab ko Send Karen Aur Dekhen k Aap k Andar Kitni Achi Aadaten Hain. But Reply Me 1st.

Dunya Main Kya Ziyada Mushkil Hai? Kisi Ka Ho Jana? Ya Kisi Ko Apna Bana Lena? What Do You Say? Reply With Solid Reason.

etc etc -- Keep getting them allllll the time from cousins in pk to --

These are so lame and creepy ... ewwww!!
I'd hit my husband in the head with his own phone if I ever saw these kinda texts

[Demilitarize]

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^ haina @ wendy? I would totally kill the female and the husband both. I don't care WHAT sort of messages they are, the time is inappropriate and there is NO need.

[blessed2006]

Re: females cosuins texting ur husband?

to be very honest i think your husband should have spoken to his cousin about the messaging. since she is his cousin so it would have been appropriate if he had spoken to her.

on the other hand as long as you have your husbands support with you then you should not worry. and every time if you are asked about this situation from anyone then i think you should just reply politely 'yes i did tell her not to message late at night since it was annoying me and my husband and was disturbing our kids at night. no offence should be taken as i told her very politely'.