PLease aur koi alternate nahi hai ki is sab baaton ka ? Like bagair unko choor kar mai kuch aur nahi karsakhti kia? Like any other method ? Please
Aik engagement phir bhi aasani se tori jaa sakti hai. Aik shadi ko torna mushkil hai.
Agar tumhay abhi se hi itni takleef ho rahi hai......to baad main kya karo gi?
You want another suggestion different from ending this rishta? Okay here is the suggestion:
Ask YOUR FATHER to talk to him and his Mama about all the problems (where you will live after marriage and their badtameez behavior with you). Your father is older than you. He has experience. Tell your dad to talk to him. Baat karnay k baad, tumharay Father sahi andaza laga sakain gay k ye larka aur us ki Amma kis tarha k log hain. I have told you many times before. ** ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM. ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM. ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM.**
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Aik engagement phir bhi aasani se tori jaa sakti hai. Aik shadi ko torna mushkil hai.
Agar tumhay abhi se hi itni takleef ho rahi hai......to baad main kya karo gi?
You want another suggestion different from ending this rishta? Okay here is the suggestion:
Ask YOUR FATHER to talk to him and his Mama about all the problems (where you will live after marriage and their badtameez behavior with you). Your father is older than you. He has experience. Tell your dad to talk to him. Baat karnay k baad, tumharay Father sahi andaza laga sakain gay k ye larka aur us ki Amma kis tarha k log hain. I have told you many times before. ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM. ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM. ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM.
ok kuch time to mai aur dekh sakhti hun na . May be he will not do dis again :( jitna gussa kartay hain utna hi pyaar bhi to kartay haina ..:(
ok piyar karta hai hum mante hain..we are not saying that he dont love u...
lekin agar usne shadi ke bad bhi yehi sab kia??as RV said one day happy other day rude..phir kia karoo gi ???
tumhare parents ne itne SAL paisy kharch kar ke itna parhaya likhaya tumhe..kuch ahsas hai???aur ab tumhe tumhare fiancee apne Maa baap ki khidmat ke liye chor ke ja raha hai???
usay apne parents ka khayal hai magar tumhe apne parents ka keu nahi???
t's good that you told him to take you to Dubai. But keep one possibility in mind. Yeh bhi ho sakta hai k woh sirf tum se shaadi karnay k liye keh raha ha k woh tumhay apnay saath Dubai lay jaye ga. Aur kya pata shadi k baad woh ais bilkul bhi na karay. Kya pata k woh shadi ke baad bahanay banaye k visa k papers main dair lag rahi hai aur lamba process hai waghera waghera.
He said "tum bhi baki sab larkion ki tarha ho?" Dekho.....kya koi apni honay wali biwi se aisa kehta hai? Samjhanay ka bhi aik tareeka hota hai. Kisi ko baghair insult kiye bhi samjhaya jaa sakta hai. Aur agar abhi se yeh us ka tareeka hai, to shaadi k baad kya haal ho ga tumhara??? Kuch socha hai. Theek hai, woh apnay parents ko nahin chor sakta...........lekin chor kar chala gaya na? Aur agar us k parents kahein k woh dubai main settle NAHIN hona chahtay.........to phir woh apnay parents ko KIS K SAATH CHOR KAR JAYE GA????????? Zahir hai tumharya saath chor k jaye ga apnay parents ko.....khaas taur par k agar parents Pakistan main hi rehna chahtay hon.
I told you before that I know a girl in Pakistan whose husband works in Middle East. She has to live with her in-laws in Pakistan because they don't want to leave Pakistan. And he can't leave his parents alone......so SHE has to take care of them.....while he lives in Dubai. It's hard for her.
Aur us ne kaha hai k "tum bhi baki sab larkiyon ki tarha ho"..................there is a possibility that this means k tumharay phelay aur bhi larkiyan thi jo k tumharay FIANCE ki niyat aur us ki AMMI ki niyat ko forun samajh gayin thi. Aur agar aisa hai.........to phir wo larkian.......tum se ziyada samjhdaar hain.
Assal baat to yeh hai tum KHUD apni respect nahin karti. Agar karti......to khud ko aisi dangerous risk se nah guzar ti.
well said RV...but see if she saying that she loves him thats why she is okay with everything...but what about her parents??she is thier loving child and she is only 20 years old....kal ko ALLAH na kare shadi ke bad kuch ho...tab ziyada takleef hoti hai....
D A...right now u r with ur parents if he or ur inlaws saying u something i know deep down in ur heart u feel secure b'coz u r living with ur parents...but after marriage things will totally change my dear..after marriage u will be on thier Rahmo Karam..and u know what??agar tab tumhare parents tumhare liye kuch kahe ge bhi to unhe yeh keh kar chup karwaya jaye ga ke ab ye is ghar ki BAHOO aur BIWI hai ab app na bolen..
so...abhi tumhare pas time hai..soch lo achi tarha..
Aik engagement phir bhi aasani se tori jaa sakti hai. Aik shadi ko torna mushkil hai.
Agar tumhay abhi se hi itni takleef ho rahi hai......to baad main kya karo gi?
You want another suggestion different from ending this rishta? Okay here is the suggestion:
Ask YOUR FATHER to talk to him and his Mama about all the problems (where you will live after marriage and their badtameez behavior with you). Your father is older than you. He has experience. Tell your dad to talk to him. Baat karnay k baad, tumharay Father sahi andaza laga sakain gay k ye larka aur us ki Amma kis tarha k log hain. I have told you many times before. ** ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM. ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM. ASK YOUR FATHER TO TALK TO THIS GUY AND HIS MOM.**
thing is that she is scare from her fiancee...she is thinking if she will tell this to her father about this and her father will talk with them about all this metter...so her fiancee will fight with her that why she did that??and why they are demanding about all this..
thing is that she is scare from her fiancee...she is thinking if she will tell this to her father about this and her father will talk with them about all this metter...so her fiancee will fight with her that why she did that??and why they are demanding about all this..
Right D A???
A guy and him mom need to know k aik larki k parents apni beti ko protect karain gay. And that's why in-laws shadi se pehlay acha impression dainay ki koshish katain hain.
Lekin is situation main to larka aur us ki Amma shadi se pehlay hi dikhana chaa rahain hain k na to hum larki ki respect kartain hain aur na us k parents ki.
Aur agar un ko ABHI SE HI larki k parents ki KOI PARWA NAHIN HAI.....to shaadi k baad bikul bhi paraw nahin karain gay.
Assal main** dar** ki koi baat nahin hai. Yeh larki khud apni izzat nahin karti aur na apna parents ki izzat karti hai aur na jaagna chahti hai. Mujhay to lagta hai iss ne apnay barbaad honay ka faisla kar liya hai.
Aur apnay parents par nahin depend kar sakti.....to kis par karay gi. Rishtay ki baatain larki ki PARENTS hi tai kartain hain. Agar koi problems ho rahi hai....to us k FATHER ko larkay aur us ki Maan se baat karni chahiye. Issi main is ki izzat hai. Naa k woh khud saari problems phone par solve karnay ki koshish karay. Best to get her father involved.
A guy and him mom need to know k aik larki k parents apni beti ko protect karain gay. And that's why in-laws shadi se pehlay acha impression dainay ki koshish katain hain.
Lekin is situation main to larka aur us ki Amma shadi se pehlay hi dikhana chaa rahain hain k na to hum larki ki respect kartain hain aur na us k parents ki.
Aur agar un ko ABHI SE HI larki k parents ki KOI PARWA NAHIN HAI.....to shaadi k baad bikul bhi paraw nahin karain gay.
Assal main** dar** ki koi baat nahin hai. Yeh larki khud apni izzat nahin karti aur na apna parents ki izzat karti hai aur na jaagna chahti hai. Mujhay to lagta hai iss ne apnay barbaad honay ka faisla kar liya hai.
Aur apnay parents par nahin depend kar sakti.....to kis par karay gi. Rishtay ki baatain larki ki PARENTS hi tai kartain hain. Agar koi problems ho rahi hai....to us k FATHER ko larkay aur us ki Maan se baat karni chahiye. Issi main is ki izzat hai. Naa k woh khud saari problems phone par solve karnay ki koshish karay. Best to get her father involved.
han magar yeh sab kyu??isay kyu apna ya parents ka khayal nahi??kyu ke yeh us se Darti hai...
Listen DA daro mat...yehi acha mouka hai uske piyar ko prakhane ka...as RV said logo ko sahdi ke bad asliyat pata chalti hai aur tumhe to pehley pata chali hai acha hai tumhare liye...
aur agar tumhe Dar hai ke he will fight with u..then yeh bhi to socho ke is this right time to know about his love...agar dar dar ke chup raho gi to kcuh nahi kar sako gi...hum rishta KHATAM karne ka NAHI keh rahe...hum keh rahe hain ke tell ur father to talk with them...aur agar tumhara fiancee kuch bhi kahe to yeh kaho usay "i love u and i respect u..but i also love my parents and respect them aswell....isliye wo jo kare ge mere ache ke liye hi kare ge...unho ne jo apse kaha hai app unse wo baten clear karen mujse is bare mai behas kar ke apna aur mera rishta kharab na kare"
trust me yar agar wo samjhdar hai aur tumse piyar karta hai to yehi kare ga...agar nahi to ulta tumse larne lag jaye ga is bat ko leke...
Exactly....getting your father involved tumhara HAQ hai. Parents ka farz hai k apnay bachon (beta ye beti) ki hifazat karain aur un k future ki behtri ka sochain.
Aur AGAR........tumharay paindu FIANCE ne tum ko apnay FATHER ko involve karnay par daanta............to rishta tor do. Tum apnay father ko nahin invovle karo gi....to aur kis ko involve karo gi? Aur us ka iss baat par daantna bewakoofi hogi.
Meri nazar main........tumhara FIANCE is baat ka FAIDA utha raha hai k tum kamzor ho aur apnay father ko involve nahin kar rahi. Woh yeh hi soch raha hoga k main iss larki ko apni baaton k saath control main rakhoon ga.
Varna NO FATHER would accept k koi larka us ki beti ko servant bana kar apni BADTAMEEZ AMMA k paas chor kar khud Dubai main settle hojaye.
Aur tum yeh mat socho k agar us ne keh diya hai k Dubai lay kar jayega to....to lay kar jaye ga. Is baat ki koi guarantee nahin. Banda shadi k baad 100 bahanay bana sakta hai k woh Dubai nahin lay kar jaa sakta. Tum khud bhi to socho.......k agar us ki AMMA nahin Dubai settle hona chahti.......to woh Amma ko akela Pakistan to nahin chor sakta. Kisi k saath hi chor kar jaye ga..........most likely tumhay. Yeh Dubai ka maamla bahut serious hai......is liye apnay Father se us ki clarification karvao.
Aik aadmi ko doosray aadmi ki ziyada understanding hoti hai. **Larkiyan.....larkon ko nahin samajh sakti. **Men can understand men better. Is liye mashwara day rahi hoon.....k tumharay abu agar us se baat karain gay........to unhay larkay k baaray main kuch andaza hojaye ga k woh kis tarha ka hai. Lekin tumhay apny abbu ko pehlay batana hoga k woh aur us ki Mama tumharay saat kis tarha behave kar rahain hai. Zaroori yeh to nahin hai k tumharya abbu rishta ussi waqt tor dain gaye.........tumharay abbu un se araam se phone par clarification maangay gain. Aur issi main aqalmandi hai.
U know what engagement say pehlay he waz sooo good ,pehlay bhi he usually fought to me but abhi mujhay aisa lagta hai jaisay k wo apni mama ki baatoon mai aarahay hain :( may be shadi k baad jab mai un k saath mai hungi to sab sahi hujaiga ..
yes bacha shadi k baad sub theek ho jaaiy ga.So go ahead n marry him with those colorful goggles on.n ager theek na bhi hoa tu hum sub tu hain he na for free advice n free shoulders 2 cry on.
yes bacha shadi k baad sub theek ho jaaiy ga.So go ahead n marry him with those colorful goggles on.n ager theek na bhi hoa tu hum sub tu hain he na for free advice n free shoulders 2 cry on.
Yaar Mabrook........baki sari advice seriously nahin li is ne. Aur agar iss baat ko seriously lay liya to??????? And what if ussay "colorful goggles" ki samajh na aye? LOL. Ab tum dekhna.....aisa hi hoga......u're going to win! Tumharay mashwaray se bacha ko bari khushi mili gi. LOL :)
hum kuch bhi kahe...chahe iski MIL aur finacee ki video bhi bana ke dikhaye ke wo iske sath kia karne wale hain..magar D A "suhane sapne" jo dekh rahi hai ke BAD mai aesa nahi hoga..isliye abhi yeh larki kuch nahi samjhne wali....
muje herat is bat pe kal usne isne selfish aur pata nahi kia kia kaha aur is larki ne phir bhi usay text kiye like yeh aesy behave karti rahi jese batamizi isne ki usne nahi??aur Isi bat ka wo log faida utha rahe hain isko bholi bhali samjh ke...
Yaar Mabrook........baki sari advice seriously nahin li is ne. Aur agar iss baat ko seriously lay liya to??????? And what if ussay "colorful goggles" ki samajh na aye? LOL. Ab tum dekhna.....aisa hi hoga......u're going to win! Tumharay mashwaray se bacha ko bari khushi mili gi. LOL :)
