Feeling Tense and disturb today!

[redvelvet]

@Disturb_angel

well my fiancy also offers five times prayer...Dont know why he is used of slangs now :( aik baar mainay un say poocha tha k app plz is tarah mujh say baat kiun kartay hain then in the reply he said to me k tum mujhay itna zyada gussa diladeti hu k main tum say aisi language start karta hun and main bhi nahi chahta k main aisi language mai baat karun...he said k shadi k baad tum mujhay itna pyaar dena na k main ye sab bad words bolna bhool jaon :(

kabhi kabhar waqai mujhay ajeeb sa feel hota hai k pata nahi wo mujh say waqai dil say pyaar kartay hain ya phir ye pyaar wagaira sab fazoool hai..samajh hi nahi aata..kafee loag kehtay hain k he haf anger problem and gusssay ki halat mai un ko shayad kuch yaad nahi rehta hai...

My mom waz saying k wo larkay ki pic aik psychiatrist ko dikhaingi and un ko ye sara case bataingi k kabhi larka theek behave karta ha and kabhi extremely gussay mai behave karta hai..mom waz saying k kia pata tum koi fault karti hu jis ki wajah say usko aisa hujata hai and wo itna bad behave karnay lagta hai :(

I think it's a good idea for your mom to talk to a psychologist/psychiatrist. Your mom is a smart woman. Everyone on this thread is telling you that his behavior is not normal or healthy. You can get a psychiatrist's opinion. Although I feel that common sense is sufficient enough to make any girl doubtful of wanting to spend her future with him.

[amir_pindi]

Re: Feeling Tense and disturb today!

Agrres with R.V

D.A: Although i advised you to consult your mum to make the maturer decisons.

I seriusly too think. The type sof languages he used for you in his email, were beyond shocking.

I cannot too belive, how you are tolerating this dude.

Unless he apologized for those disgusting words. I would confront him again, what he meant by that.

Dont U remember he said;

'i dont forget nor forgive mistakes''---now that s dangergous'

Personally, D.A, there we all have times when we r angry and behave and could act in ways out of control. But if i swore and abused my girl like that, and knew it hurt her, i fele it obligatory to apologize and make-up for it. And i know my girl wudnt be happy too until she made me.

You shud demand a clarification of that beahviour. If he fails to apologize or return your respect, then it clearly shows he is a proud person, who will make mistakes after marriage too and not give a **, how u feel, like this instance.**

Because if a man cannot apologize for such a BIG WRONG/MISTAKE how can you expect him to do it for the smaller ones that occur in life.

So im saying you shuld not give him forgive him or give him same respect until he recompenses for that behaviour.

Also you should check what is it that hes doing in Dubai.

Is it what he says or somthing else, which is why he didnt want u to come.