U know what engagement say pehlay he waz sooo good ,pehlay bhi he usually fought to me but abhi mujhay aisa lagta hai jaisay k wo apni mama ki baatoon mai aarahay hain :( may be shadi k baad jab mai un k saath mai hungi to sab sahi hujaiga ..
Ziyadatar Susral waalay shadi se pehlay achi impression daitay hain aur respect dikhatay hain......aur shadi k baad apna sahi rang dikhatay hain. Lekin tumhary case main to yeh log abhi say hi (shadi se pehlay) tumhay apni jooti ki tarha treat kar rahain hai. Tum kab jago gi. ** Tum apni respect kyoon nahin karti?** Tum apnay parents k baaray main kyoon nahin sochti? Woh becharay kitni tension main har waqt rahain gay yeh soch kar k yeh log un ki beti k saath kya salook kar rahain hain?
I know a girl in Pakistan. She married her cousin and he lived in Europe. He never took her there. She lived with his mother. And his mother treated her like a servant. Baad main pata chala k us ki pehlay se aik Europe main biwi hai. And she finally got divorce from him. And after MANY years of waiting...........she finally got married to another man. Her life was so difficult.
Log apnay cousins/khala par bhi poora bharosa nahin kar saktay. Aur aik tum ho......jis ko sab kuch samnay nazar aa raha hai........aur tum par koi asar nahin ho raha.
I already told you about this girl who is married to a guy that lives in Dubai. Girl lives in Pakistan with In-laws. She has 2 children. Her oldest son is almost a teenager......and her husband still hasn't called her to live in Dubai with him. You know why? Because his parents don't want to move away from Pakistan. Aur woh apnay parents ko akela nahin chor sakta. And I've heard her in-laws are not easy people.
So many people have told you the right thing to do. But it seems like you have made up your mind. Ab aur kya kaha jaa sakta hai? Jo log shadi se pehlay apna sahi rang dikha rahain hain.....Allah Jaanay shadi k baad kya karain gay.
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Aik baat batao mujhay**.......Tumhari behan, cousin, ya best friend aisi problem main ho.......to tum ussay kya mashwara deti? Yeh k woh badtameezi chup chaap sehti rahay.......ya apnay aap ko azaad kar k apnay future ko save karay?
In logon ka tumhari baizzati karna.....tumhary ki parents ki baizzati karnay k barabar hai.