Disturb Angel,
t's good that you told him to take you to Dubai. But keep one possibility in mind. Yeh bhi ho sakta hai k woh sirf tum se shaadi karnay k liye keh raha ha k woh tumhay apnay saath Dubai lay jaye ga. Aur kya pata shadi k baad woh ais bilkul bhi na karay. Kya pata k woh shadi ke baad bahanay banaye k visa k papers main dair lag rahi hai aur lamba process hai waghera waghera.
He said "tum bhi baki sab larkion ki tarha ho?" Dekho.....kya koi apni honay wali biwi se aisa kehta hai? Samjhanay ka bhi aik tareeka hota hai. Kisi ko baghair insult kiye bhi samjhaya jaa sakta hai. Aur agar abhi se yeh us ka tareeka hai, to shaadi k baad kya haal ho ga tumhara??? Kuch socha hai. Theek hai, woh apnay parents ko nahin chor sakta...........lekin chor kar chala gaya na? Aur agar us k parents kahein k woh dubai main settle NAHIN hona chahtay.........to phir woh apnay parents ko KIS K SAATH CHOR KAR JAYE GA????????? Zahir hai tumharya saath chor k jaye ga apnay parents ko.....khaas taur par k agar parents Pakistan main hi rehna chahtay hon.
I told you before that I know a girl in Pakistan whose husband works in Middle East. She has to live with her in-laws in Pakistan because they don't want to leave Pakistan. And he can't leave his parents alone......so SHE has to take care of them.....while he lives in Dubai. It's hard for her.
Aur us ne kaha hai k "tum bhi baki sab larkiyon ki tarha ho"..................there is a possibility that this means k tumharay phelay aur bhi larkiyan thi jo k tumharay FIANCE ki niyat aur us ki AMMI ki niyat ko forun samajh gayin thi. Aur agar aisa hai.........to phir wo larkian.......tum se ziyada samjhdaar hain.
Assal baat to yeh hai tum KHUD apni respect nahin karti. Agar karti......to khud ko aisi dangerous risk se nah guzar ti.