Re: Feeling Tense and disturb today!
He is 27 years old ..Yeah we met wid each other when he waz in pakistan but now he is in Dubai datzwhy we chat through internet and do voice chats usually.I'm in pakistan and doing my last year of engineering.*He wants to marry in december 2009 after my graduation and after marriage i have to live in pakistan and he will leave me alone with his parents *.
then what is purpose of marriage when u will not live with him???and he will only visit u once a year or may be after 2 year...
u r a young and nice girl..if u r not happy with their house and with or IN-laws then dont get marriage...shadi is not a game or its not for 1/2 years agreement...now u r only looking at him that u love him...
jab maine wo cooking wali thread read ki i thought it was only a cooking problem...but NO...their is much more....agar shadi ke bad bhi apki MIL apse khush nahi howi tab??and apke husband to DUbai mai hoge wo kia kare ge apke liye??he will still say she is her mother and u have to respect her..thats it..
so my advice is Plzz think seriously about ur shadi....ask him to take u with him to Dubai...