Re: Feeling Tense and disturb today!
He is not calling me since 3 days.Well my mama is also disturb .She doesnt know what to do now...Today i called to my fiancee's mom.She treats me very harshly ,like she talks in a very high pitch .Dont know wht to do. Kuch bhi samajh nahi aaraha hai mujhay.Apna 5 years ka pyaar bhi itni easily nahi choor sakhti hun main.un k saath guzra hua aik aik pal yaad aata ha agar mai unko choornay ka sooochti hun to..3 days say mai completely so nahi saki hun aur na hi mujh say studies hurahi hain..kisi cheez per concentrate nahi huraha mera ...
Disturb_Angel,
You are seriously disturbed. And reading the above post of yours.....seems to me you need some tough love from us fellow guppies to try and bring you to your senses.
Please listen to us carefully and consider the advice we're giving you. Compromise is a necessary part of a healthy and loving relationship. And this guy can't compromise for you. When people love each other, they know how to be flexible with each other. But this guy can't even be flexible for you. Also, love is not about control.
So, let's look at the current situation. He can't compromise with you. He can't be flexible. And he wants to control you. And him and his mommy don't respect you. *This is not healthy and it doesn't seem like love.
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Actions speak **LOUDER **than words. Anyone can say "I love you".....but very few people show their love through understanding and actions.
"I love you" kehna aur baat hai. Or dikhana alag baat hai (and this is more important).
You say you loved him for five years.......but 5 years is **NOTHING **compared to a possible lifetime of misery. Please think about this.
I'm not telling you to leave this guy. But I will urge you to also think with your** brain instead of only thinking with your heart. Use logic** with your emotion as well.
Remember one thing: ** Koi doosra tumhari izzat karay ya na karay*.........tumhay apni or apni family is izzat karni chahiye!*
A woman who has respects herself will not tolerate disrespect from anyone. Think about this before making any final decisions. I wish you the best.