Re: Feeling Tense and disturb today!
Thnx Gr8heera for your guidance..Well he also wants that i should have to prepare myself to live alone in pakistan with his mom and dad bcoz he haf to do money saving in dubai . Therefore he cant afford my expenses in dubai.Thatswhy i m thinking that what kinda marriage is this if i have to live without him here in pakistan? Am i doing marriage jus to care for his parents ?
You are welcome. That's what all boys marry most of the time they want their parents taken care of by his wife.
You know many girls live for several years living a part from husband and do all the things for his parents + galian + jootay gets in return. So don't worry few years then when they will die then you will do MAUJAAN HI MAUJAAN. It happened to my sisters and some relatives.
Wouldn't you like your mom and dad be taken care by your sister in law. Think like your own parents and Insha Allah you will get loads of reward.
Yeah many girls live alone with her husbands parents. Do grocery shopping and even pamper his niece and nephew and husband don't even call and talk to her that much and if she won't do anything or say anything back to his parents would be kicked out of the house. Sometimes girls are majboor can't go back as they have no parents only married brothers. You know how bhabhi's can behave with a thrown out or kicked NUND.
So don't worry be happy. Agay mauja hi maujaan after few years.