**No matter HOW BAD a guy's mom is..................the guy is 27 years gold and has his own AQAL. Just because my mom doesnt' like someone doesn't mean that I am going to treat that person with disrespect and shower them with gaaliyan.
Even if his mom doesn't like her...................he did not have to use such bad language toward her. He did not have to call her the F-word. Even if your parents don't like someone.............YOU as an ADULT should have control over your own words and actions.
His email suggest that he has a controlling psychology and also that he has anger management issues. He has said that he doesn't forgive or forget mistakes. And that is a dangerous mentality to have in a husband. A woman's life becomes miserable if she lives with a man who has to remind and curse at her for every mistake she made.
Amir_Pindi.................this is a young and impressionable girl who is 20 years old. She hasn't even completed her education. She has the next few years ahead of her to find a good rishta. YOU are making one big mistake by urging this girl to try and fix this rishta which is not even a marriage. You are giving this young girl hope. And now she's going to fall 6 step backwards. Pehlay do kadam barhai thay seedi direction main..........ab woh chay kadam peechay gir paray gi.
A guy like this had demonstrated over and over again he's not normal. There is nothing to be fixed in this relationship. Regardless of how bad his mom is, he did not have to call her such dirty words. You can tell a man's character by the way he treats women.
My advice to you would be to consider editing your post and removing the part of "trying to make it work". She has BEEN Trying to fix this relationship since the first day that she opened this thread. She has even tried protecting his reputation from her parents. Now, he doesn't deserve any more chances. Don't encourage the girl to give this guy a second chance. Everybody knows that there are some things and situations in life that don't deserve another chance after many chances have already been given.**
very true RV...my mom used to have so many problems with her Inlaws...mostly with her jhetani's and devrani's,....but my mom always teach us that this is thier perosnal matter...and we ( kids ) have to respect them as our aunty/uncel's...
so even a mom or parents are have problem with some one....do u think they will make thier kids to hate them too??i know this might be out of topic here..but see he is 27 if he was married in DA's age he woud've bigger kids...
we have a example of Nadzz's fiancee when ever nadz have some problem he always try to make her satisfy..MashaALLAH...even how scare she was/is about peshawer but he tried his best to tell her whats the situation is and wud be....and what u wil expact good deeds from a person who start fighting/galiya on a small issue..