D.A
thanx 4 clarifyig the issues.
Look its obvious the more your weakness and pasiveness is giving him more confidence and encouragement to continue and get even more dominating.
This wont stop..
no matter what u do....it seems it will oly stop when u absotley surrender yourself to as his robot wife.
None of your own actions are going to change things.
So stop hopeing for some out of the blue improvemnt form this guy.
Your tomrow will not change if you keep doing the same thing as yesterday.
It may bea big step for u, but you must get you father involved...and speak to him...and ask hi what his problme is why is he treatig y wiht so much disrespect.
Until you dont get a higher body involved obiusly everybod likes control and ego u two and ur sister r smaller than him he will not give you any importance.
YOULAST CHANCE TO SAVE THIS RELATION- TO KNOCK SOME SENSE INTO HIM-IF HE HAS SOME LEFT IN SOME CORNE ROF HIS HEAD.
PLEASE PLEASE SPEAK TO YOUR FATHER, YOU DONT HAVE TO SHOW HIM THE MAILS,BUT DO TELL HIM THE WHOLE DETAILS HOW HE IS DISRESPECTING YOU.
YOUR DAD MUST SPEAK TO HIM..
WHY DONT U GET IT GIRL!
THIS IS YOUR Last step left, im tellingyou. everibody her eis telling u to dumpy the guy, but im being somewhat empthatetic to you, because i know you have had long long relation with him, and want to save it somehow how hoping he comes through.
WHEN R U GOING TO TELL UR DAD.
WHAT THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN, YOULL GETA FEW SHOUTS/SCOLDS.
IM NOT GOING TO HELP U NOW, UNLESS U HELP URSELF.
TELL UR DAD.
READ NAMAZ, MAKE PRAYER THEN TAKE THE STEP. IF UR DAD GETS ANGRY AND WANTS TO CALL IT OFF, TELL HIM CALMLY FIRST YOU WANT TO GIVE IT ONE LAST CHANCE U WANT UR DAD TO SPEAK TO HIM AND CHECK AKIR WHATS IS IT THAT HE ACTING LIKE THIS LATELY.
I KNOW AND AGREE WITH EVRYONE, HE IS A BIG JERK. BUT U GOTTA BE A LITTLE CONSIDERATE TO EVRYONE, MAYBE HES TOO STREESED FROM WORK, HES MUM BRIANHWASHED, HES STRESSED OF HIS SISTERS IN-LAWS.
WE SHUD GIVE HIM ONE LAST THE RELATION ONE LAST TRY BEFORE CALLING IT.
GOD WILL DO BEST. READ NAMAZ AND CONFRONT UR PARENTS.