I hate that feeling!!!!!!! I have a cousin that's 27 and she's not married and is having a hard time...I have another friend that's 28.....I pray for my cousin a lot, and sometimes I wonder if she'lll EVER get married? Do any of you have that feeling? All their friends are married, people a decade younger then them are getting married. Like my cousin called me to say congrats to me (she's an angel), and I felt really guilty cuz I'm younger then her by many years and in an ideal world she should have gotten married first. So sad.
Yes it happens.
I used to ponder over the same question, when we couldn't find a rishta for my aunt. However, she recently got married at the age of 27 and Alumdullillah now she is really happy. Your cousin will InshAllah get married when the right time comes. I do believe that Allah knows best and whatever He does it's for the good, whether we as humans realize it or not. InshAllah when the right time comes she will get married and for the meantime all we can do is pray for her and all other girls like her who are looking forward to getting married.
Totally agree. Zabardast post.
You know Choti, my mom was discussing this with another aunti the other day. She was at a gathering and was speaking to this rishta aunti about my little sister. My little sister is a doll Mashallah...active, intelligent, beautiful, etc. My mom asked if she knew of anyone that was looking for a girl right now. The aunti threw up her hands and said no one. She said there arent enough men right now. It was the funniest thing but made a lot of sense coming from her. She would know being in the center of it all.
According to her, there are more educated and well qualified girls then guys. Most girls these days dont stop before a Master's and even then want to continue their education. The guys, frankly arent matching up. She said a girl with a PhD does not want to marry a guy with a Bachelor's. She would like someone who is at the same level if not more and there arent many like that. Some girls have to compromise and just suck it up, some dont marry and some go to Pakistan and marry within the family.
I personally know of some VERY well educated girls, super successful, good looking, sophisticated but not married. You wouldnt think they could possibly have a problem meeting a man but they say the same thing...the men just arent there. And they dont want to settle.
MEN, please dont take this as a male bashing comment. Its not, just what Ive heard.
There are men who are more educated bus contact honay ki baat hai.
As I'm looking for girl and some girls here are looking for guys. There should be a proper chennel and secret genuine place on GS to introduce each other there might be a match.