nope, look last year begum and i went to 3 diff concerts, more than any other year..thats after 11 years of marriage, also weekend get aways what nots. I dont think, we go exploring diff restaurants and events..and this si stuff as a couple, on our own we do gusy night and girls nights out..and would be doing more if we had a reliable babysitter 
its about personal perspectives and priorities. There are days when i work late, I want to come home, have dinner, lame on the net watch Tv and sleep, I am not even much of a talker that eve.
i answered more in that thread u posted so lets continue there