feeling sad for older unmarried girls

[Straight_up]

@choti_jaan

hmm.maybe in the community I’m living in girl’s are getting married at a younger age- and that’s why I’m thinking all wierd----**Just as a quick way to get a general picture how many of you (if you don’t mind telling us) are say 26+ unmarried? How many of you got married prior to turning 26? **

I think my community may be skewed somewhat to earlier and that’s why i think I asked on a wrong assumption.

CJ you’ve seriously got some nerve asking this question.

@Mirch

Let me tell you all girls out there.
As per my own observation , understanding and discussion I have had with other desi men.
to them the right age of the girl they want to marry a desi girl is 25 max . Even if this guy is an old geezer he wants to marry a girl 25 or younger.
The reasons they would be willing to marry an older than 25 desi girl will be :

1. The girl is a citizen or resident of a western country.
2. She belongs to some very rich family
3. They were themselves widowed or divorced.
4. Girl is stunningly beautiful , it is a rarity though, pretty desi girls normally get married at young age.
5. The parents, guardians or the girl herself lied about her age during the rishta process.

And don’t kill me for saying that. . It is my personal observation you have the right to disagree with it. :halo:

Mirch Uncle, do you have any good news for women out there, like ever??

@Sahar02

Getting married earlier does not make you happier. It also doesn’t suggest that your life is better, or that you are “ahead of the game.” Actually, the movie “He’s just not that into you” may be worth watching to enlighten you. I have to say, you sound very young and naive.

Every woman needs to watch or read this book.

@_ZS_ft.AK

I was soo sad…my aunt was abt 30 n she didnt get married…not only me…but our whole family was pareshaan for her coz shes beautiful, independent, very well educated, a great cook, everything u require for a girl…and still unmarried…but we never gave up hope…and now shes happily married…and has got a beautiful daughter MASHALLAH

Nothing can be more annoying and disturbing for the unmarried girl than this!!