Ju go woman!
I don’t think ur ever too old to get married-- when the time and person is right, just do it. It might not be conventional..but who cares about following norms/conventions now. Do what makes ya happy
Err.. Brad Pitt is hot. Do u know most 30-50 yera old desi men who look like brad pitt (really do, not think they do) 
Traditionally a husband is expected to provide and the wife is expected to keep home and rear the children. These were the traditional gender roles, in pretty much all societies. Now that things are changing, women are going for more education and building careers and contributing to the households–that’s breaking the Traditional role. So when an older woman who’s having a difficult time finding a spouse says the man has to be as much/or more educated than her, earning as much/more than her, is it b/c she wants him to provide for her OR does she think he will be mentally and emotionally compatible than someone who is less?