My friend, same one who gave me advice before, in other thread, has told.me she thinks its ridiculous NY husband went without me to hajj and how he could have left me alone and how my younger.unmarried bro in law should have gone and why did husband go. Why didn't fil go instead etc etf.
Feeding crap to me!!!!
She's wrong yes?
Do husband even.need to ask wife whether he can go hajj with his.mother/father. In our case he was told to go.as mil is unwell andso is fil whose already been hajj
My friend, same one who gave me advice before, in other thread, has told.me she thinks its ridiculous NY husband went without me to hajj and how he could have left me alone and how my younger.unmarried bro in law should have gone and why did husband go. Why didn't fil go instead etc etf.
Feeding crap to me!!!!
She's wrong yes?
Do husband even.need to ask wife whether he can go hajj with his.mother/father. In our case he was told to go.as mil is unwell andso is fil whose already been hajj
Is this "friend" of yours responsible for all the life1 threads?
You know she is feeding crap to you, so why do you eat it? Why do you want to confirm that she is wrong while you know it?
My friend, same one who gave me advice before, in other thread, has told.me she thinks its ridiculous NY husband went without me to hajj and how he could have left me alone and how my younger.unmarried bro in law should have gone and why did husband go. Why didn't fil go instead etc etf.
Feeding crap to me!!!!
She's wrong yes?
Do husband even.need to ask wife whether he can go hajj with his.mother/father. In our case he was told to go.as mil is unwell andso is fil whose already been hajj
like i told you in the other thread nadz, get a new friend
And on a side note, do you really not know anything about Hajj, the rituals, the sheer amount of pilgrims or how physically demanding it is? Please tell me I misread and you seriously did not compare Hajj to going on holidays
There is ALWAYS a point!! It's one's zehni khubt of making it positive or negative. It's all up to you. It's as same as the famous example of half empty and half full glass. It's just how YOU see it :)
Oh wow is this the same Nadzz here?? Did I read that right?... you are actually missing mum in law! Good for you hun, looks like you have turned over a new leaf! Don't worry... Be happy :)
Oh and stop listening to haterish people. That's all they like up go, see the negetivity in minuscule things
nadz, the devil has a point too. he always appeals to that very small point to make us go awry. this friend of yours will always point out the tiniest negative perspective in any situation and then feed it to you so much that that is all you see.
Nadz, for the sake of your marriage and your own personal happiness, please stop asking advice to this friend. From what you wrote about this friend the last few times, her "advice" will bring you nothing but misery. Is this the ONLY friend you have who you can seek advice from in real life?
Now missing her husband means she is jealous.... Ridiculous! She did not say anything bad about mil or in-laws in general.
Nadz, it is very normal to miss your husband but InshahAllah you won't even know where the 5 weeks went. in the meanwhile pray for the safety of your husband and MIL. Keep yourself busy with kids.
All the best!
She has slagged her in-laws off continuously in previous posts, I am judging her current actions based on the history I have seen on here
