My friend, same one who gave me advice before, in other thread, has told.me she thinks its ridiculous NY husband went without me to hajj and how he could have left me alone and how my younger.unmarried bro in law should have gone and why did husband go. Why didn’t fil go instead etc etf.
Feeding crap to me!!!
She’s wrong yes?
Do husband even.need to ask wife whether he can go hajj with his.mother/father. In our case he was told to go.as mil is unwell andso is fil whose already been hajj
like i told you in the other thread nadz, get a new friend
And on a side note, do you really not know anything about Hajj, the rituals, the sheer amount of pilgrims or how physically demanding it is? Please tell me I misread and you seriously did not compare Hajj to going on holidays
There is ALWAYS a point!! It’s one’s zehni khubt of making it positive or negative. It’s all up to you. It’s as same as the famous example of half empty and half full glass. It’s just how YOU see it
Oh wow is this the same Nadzz here?? Did I read that right?.. you are actually missing mum in law! Good for you hun, looks like you have turned over a new leaf! Don’t worry… Be happy
Oh and stop listening to haterish people. That’s all they like up go, see the negetivity in minuscule things
nadz, the devil has a point too. he always appeals to that very small point to make us go awry. this friend of yours will always point out the tiniest negative perspective in any situation and then feed it to you so much that that is all you see.
Nadz, for the sake of your marriage and your own personal happiness, please stop asking advice to this friend. From what you wrote about this friend the last few times, her “advice” will bring you nothing but misery. Is this the ONLY friend you have who you can seek advice from in real life?
