All the times I’ve been rude and unpleasant about.my husband I am.feeling really sad now. So they left for hajj. For 5 weeks. I’m feeling so teary and heartbroken.is this.normal ? I usually.go uk for months and never feel.this way. What is wrong with me. All f a sudden 5 weeks sounds long.
Feeling alone and scared being in Pakistan in a big house by myself.during day ( fil and bil work.come home around 5/6.)
Missing husband.
Also missing mil
We kind of made up.she has been very nice last week and fairly nice ever since.I.came.back from.UK
I wanted her out the house but bow she has gone there’s something missing I’m.feeling
No need Togo in Sep/Oct to uk. Summer is enough.and not really fair leaving fil alone just because am missing husband so will timetable a uk trip just to avoid that feeling. Maybe I need to grow up and feel it.
I just miss him.And rather my guppans told me nadz123 u drama u!! Only 5 weeks u silly moo
Nadz, i found this song for you that fits your situation.
in this song, the woman did not value him when he was around but after he left she is all tears…tears are good sometimes that helps create that spark needed to ignite the love lost between couples.
enjoy this song and ponder what you could do when he returns.
akee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -2)
Channa ve jake juldi chale aana
Janewale tenu binatiya, galiya pukarengi
Janewale tenu baga wich kaliya pukarengi
Mujhse tera moh naa chhute, dil ne banaye kitne bahane
Duja koyi kya pehchane, jo tan lage so tan janey
Bite gujre lamho kee sari bate tadpati hain
Dil kee surkh diwaro pe bas yaden reh jati hain
Bakee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -2)
Channa ve ja ke juldi chale aana
Janewale tenu binatiya, galiya pukarengi
Janewale tenu baga wich kaliya pukarengi
(Tere sang lad lagava ve tere sang lad lagava
Tere sang pyar nibhava ve tere sang pyar nibhava) - (2)
Meri duwao me itna asar ho, har dard gum se too bekhabar ho
Ummide tute naa mere ashiyane kee
Khushiya mile tujhko sare jamane kee
Tere sang lad lagava re tere sang lad lagava
Tere sang pyar nibhava re tere sang pyar nibhava
Bite gujre lamho kee sari bate tadpati hain
Dil kee surkh diwaro pe bas yaden reh jati hain
Bakee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -2)
Teri meri raho me chahe duriya hain, inn fasalo me bhi najadikiya hain
Sari ranjisho ko too pal me mita le
Aaja aa bhi ja mujhko galen se laga le
Tere sang lad lagava re tere sang lad lagava
Tere sang pyar nibhava re tere sang pyar nibhava
Bite gujre lamho kee sari baten tadpati hain
Dil kee surkh diwaro pe bas yadein reh jati hain
Bakee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -4)
Channa ve ja ke juldi chale aana
Janewale tenu binatiya, galiya pukarengi
Janewale tenu baga wich kaliya pukarengi
akee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -2)
Channa ve jake juldi chale aana
Janewale tenu binatiya, galiya pukarengi
Janewale tenu baga wich kaliya pukarengi
Mujhse tera moh naa chhute, dil ne banaye kitne bahane
Duja koyi kya pehchane, jo tan lage so tan janey
Bite gujre lamho kee sari bate tadpati hain
Dil kee surkh diwaro pe bas yaden reh jati hain
Bakee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -2)
Channa ve ja ke juldi chale aana
Janewale tenu binatiya, galiya pukarengi
Janewale tenu baga wich kaliya pukarengi
(Tere sang lad lagava ve tere sang lad lagava
Tere sang pyar nibhava ve tere sang pyar nibhava) - (2)
Meri duwao me itna asar ho, har dard gum se too bekhabar ho
Ummide tute naa mere ashiyane kee
Khushiya mile tujhko sare jamane kee
Tere sang lad lagava re tere sang lad lagava
Tere sang pyar nibhava re tere sang pyar nibhava
Bite gujre lamho kee sari bate tadpati hain
Dil kee surkh diwaro pe bas yaden reh jati hain
Bakee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -2)
Teri meri raho me chahe duriya hain, inn fasalo me bhi najadikiya hain
Sari ranjisho ko too pal me mita le
Aaja aa bhi ja mujhko galen se laga le
Tere sang lad lagava re tere sang lad lagava
Tere sang pyar nibhava re tere sang pyar nibhava
Bite gujre lamho kee sari baten tadpati hain
Dil kee surkh diwaro pe bas yadein reh jati hain
Bakee sab sapne hote hain, (apne toh apne hote hain -4)
Channa ve ja ke juldi chale aana
Janewale tenu binatiya, galiya pukarengi
Janewale tenu baga wich kaliya pukarengi
Apne toh apne hote hain..........
kuchh ziyaada samajh meN nahiiN aayaa magar kabhii kabhii
You're not lonely, you're jealous that he is spending 5 weeks with just his mum without you (or anyone else) around, sorry if that sounds harsh, but from your previous posts, it's obvious that you don't like your mother-in-law, and you don't like your husband (her son), doing anything for his mother.
You need to grow up big time, deal with your issues with her and the rest of your in-laws, yes they don't like you very much, but you're hardly daughter-in-law of the year.
You're not lonely, you're jealous that he is spending 5 weeks with just his mum without you (or anyone else) around, sorry if that sounds harsh, but from your previous posts, it's obvious that you don't like your mother-in-law, and you don't like your husband (her son), doing anything for his mother.
You need to grow up big time, deal with your issues with her and the rest of your in-laws, yes they don't like you very much, but you're hardly daughter-in-law of the year.
Now missing her husband means she is jealous.... Ridiculous! She did not say anything bad about mil or in-laws in general.
Nadz, it is very normal to miss your husband but InshahAllah you won't even know where the 5 weeks went. in the meanwhile pray for the safety of your husband and MIL. Keep yourself busy with kids.
All the best!
All the times I've been rude and unpleasant about.my husband I am.feeling really sad now. So they left for hajj. For 5 weeks. I'm feeling so teary and heartbroken.is this.normal ? I usually.go uk for months and never feel.this way. What is wrong with me. All f a sudden 5 weeks sounds long.
Feeling alone and scared being in Pakistan in a big house by myself.during day ( fil and bil work.come home around 5/6.)
Missing husband.
Also missing mil
We kind of made up.she has been very nice last week and fairly nice ever since.I.came.back from.UK
I wanted her out the house but bow she has gone there's something missing I'm.feeling
Time has come nadz. Yes. I believe, its from Allah, Who gives us time and break when we are going through tough situations. A break, to realise the importance of relationships. And I think thats the important phase. You went to UK leaving him in Pakistan didn't make any difference because UK was your place.. Allah makes such plans... and this plan was made so that you could feel his importance and you could feel the change of opinions you now hold towards your mil.
This could have never happened if they were around.
You're not lonely, you're jealous that he is spending 5 weeks with just his mum without you (or anyone else) around, sorry if that sounds harsh, but from your previous posts, it's obvious that you don't like your mother-in-law, and you don't like your husband (her son), doing anything for his mother.
You need to grow up big time, deal with your issues with her and the rest of your in-laws, yes they don't like you very much, but you're hardly daughter-in-law of the year.
Dunya ki haqeeqaton me AISAY ^ Log bhi hotay hen...magar nadz tum pareshan mt hona.... kuch to log kahengay...logon ka kaam hy kehna!!
