It wasn’t an attack–you posted it publicly, not shared it privately. and I’m glad you at least got my point.
Your first responsibility is to yourself, not to your parents or husband or in laws. If you’re not mentally/physically/emotionally strong enough, that affects all your other relationships, and toxic relationships–be they with friends, family members or in laws–will do that.
People need to snap out of the thinking that in order to be a good mother/sister/daughter/wife/bahu, you have to be a “martyr.”