Feeling Devastated/Broken

[redvelvet]

Re: Feeling Devastated/Broken

@soundarya

We don’t know his side of the story, but it definitely is wrong for him to divorce you without even attempting to fix the issues. If he could consider sending you for treatment for post-partum depression, then surely he could have considered marriage counseling.

It’s sad he doesn’t care about his daughter. Does he even visit her? If he doesn’t,** please say to him and his family that they’re very trusting to leave his daughter with a psycho wife**… and they must have decided that 6 months ago as well.

See it’s this point that makes me think that their issue was not just their inability to handle nightingale’s treatment. Seems like there’s something MORE behind their decision. Did he ditch his daughter because she’s not a son? Was it because they’re afraid that the daughter inherited mom’s temporary psychological problems? It’s odd. If they had come back for the daughter or fought to keep her…I might think that they had something just against nightingale’s psychological conditions. But since they didn’t…makes me wonder if they had OTHER issues/motives/plans.

And yes, there are 2 sides to a story. Being religious doens’t always mean having common sense…were they supersititous? Did they think that Nightingale was possessed and that somehow the daugther would be as well? I’m not trying to offend/hurt the OP…she has enough problems. But people in our culture don’t see psychological therapy in a positive/mature light…you’ll hear them say stupid things that the person is posessed or black magic has been done, etc.