confused kuri… :hinna: … your mom hasn’t seen the guy yet! She might end up liking him. Fight for him if your mom rejects him after the meeting. If that happens, then read up on all the advice we have given. I don’t get why your mom is bringing up the marrying younger guys thing. Yes, it does happen and I don’t discourage it either. But a lot of times, that happens if it’s a love marriage. Most guys aren’t willing to marry older girls, even if they do look young.
Seriously, how can you say that your settling on this guy??! Why are you insulting him like that? You say that he’s average, he’s not that good looking. Would you prefer someone below average? A dashing shehzada could have bad qualities. You know that this guy is good. You get all mushy about him and it’s clear you love him for who he is. That’s not settling. And by saying that, you’re treating this guy as if he’s some random stranger off of the street. Honestly, you’re doing his bayzati. You know that looks aren’t everything and you have to be realistic! Good job on taking yourself off of the matrimonial website :k: Now, just appreciate the guy a little more. He works out at the gym. Is considering growing out his hair for you. He’s trying hard to make you happy. Does he make such demands with you?
I agree. And you need to tell your mom (if she rejects him), that you’re fortunate that you even have this guy in your life considering how picky you’ve been in the past. If she rejects him, this time you’ll be the one to tell her that you lost a good guy over stupid superficial things.