How much do you care about getting judged by strangers? Like at a grocery store or gas station or parties.
Do you ever change your plans because, you think others may pass judgment?
For example, if you’re at a buffet, would you put less in your plate because you think someone may see the amount and judge?
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Used to care about such judgments, not anymore.
Btw, the people who judge others by the amount of food they take at buffets, are people who actually want to take more food too, but they are scared to be judged too....
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A bit. People on public transport are scary, okay?
Also, a lot of people in my area are really nosey and like to make judging eyes at you :(
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Who cares .... You can't please everyone out there in this world.....
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i used to, not any more.. i paid for the buffet didn't i? i will put as much in my plate as i want.. but i rather go twice then load up my plate once.
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judge me all you want but keep the verdict to yourself
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Interesting, never thought of it like that.
As a sidenote, I think we would only care about being judged if we have some sort of insecurity. Like for me, I would acutally put less food in my plate if I feel like someones looking, because I am a little self-conscious about my weight. But if someone was to judge me by my fashion sense, I wouldn’t care, because I’m confident in what I wear.
^And those examples are only with strangers. I don’t really care if friends call me out for being a moti for putting too much food 
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No really, what I have observed during years is that people who judge most are insecure themselves.
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It's true only those judge who have some sort of insecurity. But than there is the idea of letting someone else's judgment bother you. You would only let someone else's judgment bother you IF you are insecure (about something specific).
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You would only let someone else's judgment bother you IF you are insecure (about something specific).
It isnt a matter of "would I let it bother me" but rather it would bother me regardless of how hard I try not to. Anyone who says otherwise is denying or have attained some sort of sainthood (aka hum main say nahi....jk)
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It's true only those judge who have some sort of insecurity. But than there is the idea of letting someone else's judgment bother you. You would only let someone else's judgment bother you IF you are insecure (about something specific).
That is true too.
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I don’t know 
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It’s hard for me say I would take a strangers judgment seriously if i’m not already self-conscious about it. And I’m no saint lol. I’ll have to think it over some more.
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It isnt a matter of "would I let it bother me" but rather it would bother me regardless of how hard I try not to. Anyone who says otherwise is denying or have attained some sort of sainthood (aka hum main say nahi....jk)
I think that holds true if that judgement is about your physical appearance or other personal matters, but really, if anyone will judge me for the cloths I am waering or the language I am speaking I wont care at all.
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I think that holds true if that judgement is about your physical appearance or other personal matters, but really, if anyone will judge me for the cloths I am waering or the language I am speaking I wont care at all.
Any negative assessment would bother a person, whether consciously or subconsciously. The only thing that differs among people is how long they dwell on it.
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“What? Your toilet ran out of toilet paper? Hamaray ghar main tou har waqt stock hota hai toilet paper ka … aur woh bhi scent walay toilet paper” 
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^:rotfl:. uffff people are so special!
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running out of toilet paper indicates lack of home management...........
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running out of toilet paper indicates lack of home management...........
Nah I just want my guests to use natural materials like soil and dried grass. Natural stuff is environment friendly.
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^ 
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I have a fear of being afraid of people judging me.