**Yes take a deep breath and betray your mother’s trust and become her enemy by denying her right to happiness! Marvellous! SubhanAllah this is the reward for raising a child and giving somewhat 15/20 years of your life to a marriage/man, than I think we should all strive to fulfill the ‘natural urges’ of men!
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Why so much hype about male sexual urges? Go involve yourself with helping the vulnerable/elderly/homeless/orphan instead of eyeing women up and wasting your energy on useless thoughts! Islam says to lower your gaze!
Women have sexual needs to, but they don’t all jump the bandwagen and start having illegal affairs/remarry on this basis.