father having second marriage

[kahtifah]

@charism

i told my dads mum about it, didnt have the guts to tell my dad. SHe was like, dont say anything to your mum because things will turn worse. SHe told me its better i dont say anything yet and let it happn and be prepared for it. She thinks my dad might not go ahead with it. she said all men are disgusting and what my dad is doing is really really wrong and shes on our side.

apparantly, when my dad marries in the future it will be very badd… but if i tell my mum now it will be even worser, so let it be- according to my grandma and i think shes right. but shes telling me to still keep in contact with my dad after he re marries but i told her i disagree. Because when he did such thing he did not think of his kids so why should he deserve that we keep in touch with him after .

i know hes my dad but he can just go to hell.

I’m sorry if this offends you, but I think you already knew what YOU wanted to do before you created this thread. And I dont think you ever planned on telling your mother. It seems to me that you are just thinking about yourself from your statement above. **Because when he did such thing he did not think of his kids so why should he deserve that we keep in touch with him after. **As for your grandmother, I dont trust her one bit.

Btw, how did your mom react when she found out her brother was getting married again?