amma jan bohat hi conventional khatoon hain …she is also concerned that a “moti bahu” will cause much embarressment in the family. I have already caused much social problems for her.
at any rate I am not looking for justification , just wondering whether in last 5yrs or so ideals of beauty have radically changed or not …I am from a very paindoo background and my relatives never before had such requirements for a “bahoo” …so maybe its something new.