Fantasy vs Reality !

[sheyn]

@TLK

Ok niks is here so let me be serious ..

what I meant Sheyn is that I grow the wanting of what I have, not to say that I dont strive anymore. I do have things that I want to take care of. i wont call then fantasies, but wish list.

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But those wishes are realistic and achievable i’m presuming so they are not really fantasies but more like goals to be attained.

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***However everyone has that one wish where one just goes " If Only ! " ***

@ehsan

Because the grass always seems greener on the other side.

@Niksik

Wanting what you cannot have? Well first of all, who said that we cannot have it? If it’s something ridiculous or immoral then we should try to rid our nafs from that desire in the first place. If it is a worthwhile goal that requires extra effort, then we should work hard towards achieving it.

There is nothing wrong in wanting. A man without goals and desire is one that just exists without purpose. We just have to learn to put things in perspective.

Agreed !

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But then it isn’t a fantasy is it ?

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And no i’m not even referring to unrealistic , immoral fanstasies but to decisons which one just din’t take even when the opportunity was offered simply because one looked at consequences of thier actions and overlooked
one’s own satisfaction !

@Problem _girl

^app ko kuch Ahsas nahi shyn ko topic ko app kis terah tabah ker rahay hain : P

director ko ik warning zaroor milnee chayee : P

Ye inn ki porani adat hai

@njgal

Well because we strive for more and different things and expereinces in our life.

If you want something bad enough you make it happen for yourself

But for me - what I want keeps changing with time.

***NJgal …fantasies evolve with time ! ***

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Some become more realistic and achievable and others you look back on and wonder what you were thinking !