So I read an article where they did survey on happily married couples who fantasized about another person when having s* * with their partners.
Interestingly, more women than men fantasize during s**, they say, everyone does it at some point, and this someone else can be anyone, fav celebrity, ones ex, anyone!
Is this normal? Would you consider it cheating? If it is infidelity!
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Islamically, that’s one form of fornication.
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Women cheat emotionally way more…
I think it is quiet common for any of two partners to fantasize about others while having s e x.
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The couples are happily married because the other half probably isn’t aware of the fantasies; surveys are usually anonymous. Ignorance is bliss, right? I once brought it up with a married Desi friend of mine and she brushed it off saying it’s not a possibility one should dwell on. I am surprised that such fantasies are more common in women. Few people would even admit to it. Oh well, all the more reason to keep attachments at bay. For some partners consistency in respect and consideration is hard enough to manage, mohabbat to door ki baat hai.
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Paper bags are so utilitarian.
You answered your own concern. It’s probably more common in men, but less men admitted to that
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abay bhai jo kartey hain wont admit it aur jo admit kartey hain unn kee relationship ka Allah hee hafiz, as long as the couple is happy with each other kee faraq painda hai ? 
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Stop reading those articles. West have an issue, they love to find some dirties, most shameful full spot in one personality and expand on it, that as whole relation person is defined form that one point. Some what like big bang in the relation.
Our tradition is, such things are not emphasized, talked about day and night… with pictures … with interviews…,
they just pass. Healthy relationship goes on.
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I’m surprised this thread hasn’t been flooded with feminists.
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Fully agree with Hareem n Monk !
Who made this survey actualy ?
Must b a western and sick , n he/she must b fantasizing during sex with the partner !
Sick ppl !
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I’m just interested to know why you censored the word sex in the title.
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good point young jeffrey, you may continue fapping
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O_O
Hawww tobah… It’s western decadence, this or any other stuff related to sex does not happen in the land of the pure…
PS: errr don’t look up sex related web search patterns for Pakistan
PS2: …no don’t!!!
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okay technical question for all maulvis…pros, interns, hobbyists alike
so if someone is having sex with the spouse but imagining the spouse differently then what?
its not this virtual zina or whatever term ppl just conjured up, cuz hey its still the spouse but different location, outfit, etc..maybe 20 years younger, 10 lbs lighter or muscular…different measurements…okay okay I know u are now getting all hot and bothered so i will stop with examples
just checkin…
PS: for extra points if someone is imagining his wife #3 while doing it with wife #1, then what?
Bigger issue is if wife #1 is also imagining wife #3 at that time
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aunty, aap apnay problems baad mein poochain…its my turn to ask right now
