Fantasize about Someone Else during S**?

[blessed2006]

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I don’t know if it can be called cheating but it surely is something not right and it tells what sort of unhealthy relationship the couple has (or one has with the other). Not denying that it does not happen…i am sure it does happen but it just keeps happening because either one cannot talk about it (out of shame or fear) or the either is not ready to listen to anything (too angry). Plus this survey seems untrue to me since there is no proof as to if the survey was taken on individual basis or both partners were present together while one partner was saying ‘i imagine etc etc while having sex with my partner and we are happy’. As far as i know no one would like to hear any such thing from their partner.

[X2]

Kakay…you are a Jedi knight now.

[TLK]

May the force (of imagination) be with you

[khattichic]

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[Ghost14]

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Is it cheating if you’re fantasizing about wife #3 while having sex with wives 1 and 2?

[kaka_in_usa]

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@blessed2006

I don’t know if it can be called cheating but it surely is something not right and it tells what sort of unhealthy relationship the couple has (or one has with the other). Not denying that it does not happen…i am sure it does happen but it just keeps happening because either one cannot talk about it (out of shame or fear) or the either is not ready to listen to anything (too angry). Plus this survey seems untrue to me since there is no proof as to if the survey was taken on individual basis or both partners were present together while one partner was saying ‘i imagine etc etc while having sex with my partner and we are happy’. As far as i know no one would like to hear any such thing from their partner.

Everyone imagines dude. A lot of times men imagine a big fat ugly girl for reasons known to every men :halo:

[Krypton]

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Just don’t name your imagination hehe

Lol @ x2

Ewww in general

[Krypton]

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Sorry but cooler people already pointed that out

@Ghost14

Is it cheating if you’re fantasizing about wife #3 while having sex with wives 1 and 2?

[Ghost14]

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@X2

okay technical question for all maulvis…pros, interns, hobbyists alike
so if someone is having sex with the spouse but imagining the spouse differently then what?
its not this virtual zina or whatever term ppl just conjured up, cuz hey its still the spouse but different location, outfit, etc..maybe 20 years younger, 10 l

PS: for extra points if someone is imagining his wife #3** while doing it with wife #1**, then what?

@Ghost14

Is it cheating if you’re fantasizing about wife #3** while having sex with wives 1 and 2**?

@philosophy

Sorry but cooler people already pointed that out

Reading comprehension may not be your strong suit so I thought I’d help you out.

Sorry.

[Krypton]

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Thanks you’re so smart

[diwana]

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@Hinamajid

So I read an article where they did survey on happily married couples who fantasized about another person when having s* * with their partners.

Interestingly, more women than men fantasize during s**, they say, everyone does it at some point, and this someone else can be anyone, fav celebrity, ones ex, anyone!

Is this normal? Would you consider it cheating? If it is infidelity!

It will not be called sex then. It should be called masturbation, in which other person is merely used as a tool/toy.

[diwana]

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@kaka_in_usa

If having sex with wife but imagining someone else is cheating then would having sex with someone else but imagining your wife is not cheating?

Yes. Any intimate relation emotional or physical with someone other than the person you’re with is cheating. I think you missed the bold part of your own sentence.

[blessed2006]

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@kaka_in_usa

Everyone imagines dude. A lot of times men imagine a big fat ugly girl for reasons known to every men :halo:

Not everyone. Please dont generalise it to everyone since u dont know everyones true sex life.

[chacha_Ghalib]

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All hail the mighty diwana. I don’t know what we’ve done to deserve diwana’s learned company again.

[Blacklisted_Prince]

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@diwana

Yes. Any intimate relation emotional or physical with someone other than the person you’re with is cheating. I think you missed the bold part of your own sentence.

Its nt only cheating , it is the Zina !
As we knw when an eye stalks a Na Mehram badly , its eyes zina (ankhon ka zina)
When a hand does something like this its hathon ka zina
So when u imagining emotionally someone u r doing Brain ka dil ka zina n when u do physically its complete zina !

[X2]

And when you do it physically and it is a satisfying experience for both… or all three (you sly lucky dog you…) then it’s complete zina that’s a complete experience. Just thought I add that in there.

[X2]

Light bulb…

A business idea, a virtual muttah portal, ppl go thru photos and if there is Some one they want to fantasize about, PayPal them dowry fees for duration agreed and well then go fantasize.

Here is a loophole to get the peeps through this until I get that portal up and running. Once I state this loophole you all will see why I am the chosen one and you are mere serfs..

Imagine an imaginary person … See no real person…no zina… How can it be zina if who you are imagining does not exist…

My people… Your spiritual guide has saved you once again…

Now go get busy..

PS: ladies you can PayPal me $500 for 72 hours.
PS2: I said ladies, step away from the keyboard., yes TLK, I am talking to you.

[diwana]

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@chacha_Ghalib

**All hail **the mighty diwana. I don’t know what we’ve done to deserve diwana’s learned company again.

Shukriyah…

Yeh Sub Aap Ki Karam Farmai Hai Chacha Ji!

[el_topo]

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^ Diwanaji! Where have you been? I was waiting for you.

[diwana]

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@el_topo

^ Diwanaji! Where have you been? I was waiting for you.

Now that doesn’t sound too good. May God help me!

I mean… you don’t own any stilettos, do you???

BTW: Where have you been? I did notice you are back.