well u seem like u r really serious about this girl, if you know she is a good girl, and is Marriage/wifey material, and u know that in the long run she will make u and ur family happy i say run away and get married, and dont show ur face for another 5 years. Pop back after 5 years with a few babies and ur mum will have forgoten every thing and will welcome u with open hands:shoaby:
Ok i was only joking about the last bit, mind u doesn’t seem like such a bad idea does it:hmmm:
like i said in my previous post sometimes parents presume thier children are still kids and can’t make such big decisions, and are soo adamant they wont listen or budge…
when parent’s look for wifes for their sons they want someone, who is able to blend in with their lifestyle and family, someone who dresses modestly, Have respect for their olders, who is able to look after the family, cook clean etc.. etc…
Why does ur mum not agree with this Marriage? have u tried to reassure her, and has she met the girl, what do ur other family members think of her?