~*Family or love?*~

Lifestyle Relationships
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What would u do if ur family came in the way of the person u loved, and u was unable to marry them…

Would u:

  1. Leave ur family to be with the person u love

  2. Make ur Family Happy, and try ur best to forget about the person

  3. Marry someone else with ur familys blessing, and hope u will learn to be happy with ur new Marriage

  4. become a Devdas

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2 and 3.

People need their own family more after marriage. Husband can leave them but the family will still be there for support.

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Hmmmmm… :aliyish:

2 n’ 3

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2 or 3...family is very important.

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:hmmm: No comments!

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For me its always been my family first and always will IA

2 and 3 for sure

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kiya??? tu kuski loryai???

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Hum soch kai bataeein gain :hmmm:

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try to get the fam to like him :@:

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2&3 coz my parents have done everything for me and nothing or no-one is worth breaking their hearts over

I guess with some people its worth convincing your parents this is the guy for you but with some parents it's not even worth going their as it would kill them

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none of above, My family is reason able. If I like some and they don't or wise versa their must be a reason.
So I will talk to them to see their reason or to tell them mine.
The girl who is not good for me , i will be able to figure out with family's help.

As a matter of fact they have been telling me to losen up and pick a "girl" and stop looking for "superWoman"

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^it's very unfair of you to say fams who do not agree to love marriage are morons - there are many reasons for this one beig the number of idiots out there parents fear for their children thats all, all parents want best for their children.

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My family is not unfair or unjust. If they disapprove there must be a reason for it. My family knows what's best for me. If they dont think he is best then I want to know why. Based on that I would make my decision. If the reason is valid (i am not the type to be blinded by love...and am willing to see things clearly) and not some ignorant reason for their disapproval.....then family comes first and foremost.

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Sorry didn't mean in that way. I meant they are very open minded ppl. Usually my standards are more strict then their's.

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^no worries like i said parents make decisions based on the best for their childs future.

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But they do miss some stuff very often.
Mine got me engaged to a girl who I wasn't attracted to.

The Random Thread
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I know but still can't call them morons they have the best intentions most of the time

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hmmm
yeah I edited the post.

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^lol

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i dont beleive in love before marraige, i have been married for 9 years mashallah and it was arranged, it took atleast the first three years to get used to each other and know what the other likes and dislikes and what his reaction will be in certain situations, even if you know the other person before marraige things change once you are married and sometimes you can disagree on certain things when a new situation arises
so a would do 2 and 3 as with this, in case things do go wrong at least you will have your parents support, to work things out