i have seen a lot of desi families who are selfish and don'T really care about thier kids's hapiness but they just pretend like they do. they just want everything to be the way they want. they care more aobut the isaat in the society and their own dominance over everything. i am talking about both guys and girls parents here.
and when you confront them about it either they get angry or they stat leaking out magarmahc ke ansoo. but they will hardly ever admit that this is the case.
parents love should mean that they care about their kids hapiness more any damn society or people. it does not mean that they should prevent ,interfere and finish any hapiness in your life. that is just cunning manipulation.