Re: family masla
Yes dude, this is Family Saga, season 2. You missed the season 1.
Can someone help to post link to session 1 ...
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Soni...this is your brother...you need to be the bigger person and just go
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soni satees: u ki bhabhi bohot zaalim hai. ;)
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Bus jee ap ki duaain chahiye :halo:
Zaroor zaroor… Tumhary paas zada achay ideas hoty hain 
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Just get over it, be yourself, and go. If she makes an issue of your attendance, the only person who will look bad will be her (as long as you don't retaliate, that is).
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Soni...this is your brother...you need to be the bigger person and just go
yes i undesrtand but she said that we have to wear soem bridesmaid dresses or something .. u know the ones white girls wear .. i think she was gona arrange for that .. everyone coordinating or something like that she said .. but if she doesnt even want to talk to me then how am i going to ask her about the dress and stuff ..
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I also read it as family masala.
Now to the original koweschen.
If she does not invite do not go. Make sure you text everybody to let them know that you are not going because you were not invited. If she invites then you should go , but be very formal , do not talk too much. You two look like two sides of a same coin though , I read the story of how it all happened , you two will never be good friends till both of you are 50 years old and sober enough.
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yes i undesrtand but she said that we have to wear soem bridesmaid dresses or something .. u know the ones white girls wear .. i think she was gona arrange for that .. everyone coordinating or something like that she said .. but if she doesnt even want to talk to me then how am i going to ask her about the dress and stuff ..
Involve someone and ask him/ her to talk to your bhabi. Ask your mother or brother to sort it out between you two. Afterall, no one would like to spoil the shadi because of such a small thing...
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yes i undesrtand but she said that we have to wear soem bridesmaid dresses or something .. u know the ones white girls wear .. i think she was gona arrange for that .. everyone coordinating or something like that she said .. but if she doesnt even want to talk to me then how am i going to ask her about the dress and stuff ..
Looks like she is not going to invite you. If she does , just go in some formal dress and ignore her snide remarks if she makes any.
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Ask your brother whether or not you should go. Tell him you don't know any of the details of the invitation and you need him to confirm the where/when. He should be the one to give you direction on what to do. If he's sensible, he'll sit both of you down together and you can air out your issues and resolve the argument and move on.
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Involve someone and ask him/ her to talk to your bhabi. Ask your mother or brother to sort it out between you two. Afterall, no one would like to spoil the shadi because of such a small thing...
the shadi is not until late summer .. this is a bridal shower not the wedding .. n pplus i remeber her sayign its probably gona be at her younger mamoos house n was alreday giving us really dirty looks at our house during the nikkah function which is quite uncomfortable .. n my mom is not even here .. i dont want to go there n get this same treatment from all her family members if she doesnt even want me to be there in the first place .. one of her sisters has also made snide and mocking remarks to me on the phone before and she is the one who put her on the phone n said my sis wants to talk to u .. no one from our side is going .. if its just gona be me alone in this uncomfortable situation .. i dunno ..
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You are stressing too much , go take a vacation at the same time she is having her shower. You will have good time and forget all this family saga.
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Ask your brother whether or not you should go. Tell him you don't know any of the details of the invitation and you need him to confirm the where/when. He should be the one to give you direction on what to do. If he's sensible, he'll sit both of you down together and you can air out your issues and resolve the argument and move on.
he jus told me shes really moody and sensitive like all girls are n when i said privately to him that i dunt understand y she is dragging this masla on when i thought it was finished he got little irritated .. he told me before that i need to talk to her again n that she thinks i hate her but honestly i dont know if thats the case cuz to me it seems like she upset with me n does not have any interest in talking to me or being friends again .. hes just the in between person n he does not want to force anybody to do anything .. it seems like hes scared to force us both into doing anything ..
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You are stressing too much , go take a vacation at the same time she is having her shower. You will have good time and forget all this family saga.
yes i want to go but i cant go right now ..
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yes i want to go but i cant go right now ..
why not ?
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that a whole other story another issue .. im stuck right now between a rock and a hard place
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If she doesnt invite you, dont go. People will know that you were not invited, so you wont look bad. If she does invite you, even if it is last minute, go to show that you are the bigger person.
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yes i undesrtand but she said that we have to wear soem bridesmaid dresses or something .. u know the ones white girls wear .. i think she was gona arrange for that .. everyone coordinating or something like that she said .. but if she doesnt even want to talk to me then how am i going to ask her about the dress and stuff ..
How about you decide first what is important to you:
Showing your bhabi up
or
Making an effort for the sake of your brother
Once you make that choice...you can figure things out accordingly.
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I don't think you should go without an invite.