Family favors

[fat_spartan]

@PyariCgudia

Their kid is out of control.

If the girls closet themselves in a room to watch a movie, because they dont want to be bothered by his interference, he is now taken up kicking the door with his foot.

He has broken a few things.

He nearly broke the chair climbing into it, as oppose to pulling it out like a normal person.

In some of your posts you make it sound like your cousin old enough to go to college (or almost) and in posts like this, you make it sound like he’s younger than 7. Well, for that type of child, I have no patience. If he’s going to get a beating if I complain about his behavior to his parents, that isn’t going to stop me.

Yes, my mother should probably lay down the rules and just tell the family - look, he can’t break stuff, and if he does, you are fixing it, and you are paying for it.

But 1. he is her brother
2. if anyone complains about the kid, the dad’s response is to beat him up - like literally, you here this little boy screaming from the beatings.

So, my mother chooses not to yell at him or tell him to stop, because she knows her brother will go a-wall on his kids and she doesn’t want the kids to be physically beaten under her roof.

He’s going to go AWOL on them? (absence without leave).

Oh and more. So, this family is using my bathroom. I’ve taken up living out of my parents bathroom. 6 people - using my bathroom. They have plugged up the toilet and it wasn’t flushing. So, guess what this uncle does? He hands my sister the plunger and tells her it is plugged up. She’s like…um, YOU are plunging it. Hands the plunger back to him. The whole night he complained about how we have cheap toilets.

Did he manage to clear it up? He’s got a point though. Toilets here get blocked very easily, especially compared to what they use at home.

He also told my father to his face how our tiles on the floor are of the cheap variety. Made some comments about the house as well, like how small it is.

My father is just so in pain from this guy’s arrogance, and he can’t say anything, because he doesn’t want to hurt his wife if he goes off on her brother.

Seeing her brother’s behavior, I don’t think she wouldn’t fully support him if he were to say anything.

The whole household is tense. They know we are getting tired of their kid. They are tired of living in such a cramped space.

I have a feeling there will be a big emotional explosion before they leave, though.

He did this with me, and my sister is telling me tonight that he did this with her as well: guy can’t make a phone call and deal with being put on hold. He’s on hold for a solid 2 min and hands my sister the phone and says, these people aren’t talking to me, do something.

???

I’m just confused. How do people like this have jobs in Pakistan?

Well, I hope everything works out with minimum damage, physical or otherwise. No matter how bad you think he is, you can see that PunjabiRose here has it much worse, so we should at least be thankful that our relatives aren’t like that, Alhamdulillah.