Family favors

[fat_spartan]

@PunjabiRose

PCG - Your uncle and my uncle could be long lost twins. My uncle pulls the same stunt with us every couple of years. He has many medical problems … which I have sympathy for ..but I do not have any sympathy for the fact that he himself has made his health deteriorate (example: been diabetic his whole life but continues to consume sugar to the point both of his kidneys fail and has reached the point of obesity …which has led to a million other health problems). He is my dad’s youngest brother and ONLY brother. He never got himself educated and married super young and had kids right away. Oh ..he also never got a job. My dad’s parents put the guilt trip on him their whole lives that he has to feel “bad” for his younger bro and it is his responsibility to take care of him. My dad bought that moron a house, a factory (so that he has income coming in), put his five daughters through schools and got them married (keep in mind they are wayyyyyyy older than us kids since my dad had to put his own marriage and life on hold to help out his brother). He also sent him money every month like clockwork because him and his wife (i swear she is worse than him) constantly complain that they are faqeers (yet they have servants, a body gaurd, driver and a SUV ???).

On top of it, my dad foots all of his medical bills obviously as well as his wifes (she has let her health deteriorate as well). Let me also include this: My father has even donated his own kidney to this uncle. Talk about literally doing everything you can to help a relative out. Now, this idiotic uncle threatens to stop taking his anti-rejection medicine anytime he demands money. It is so ridiculous and hurtful to us. My dad’s own kids have now gotten old enough to have reached colleges and get married. … and also the time has come for my dad to retire!!! But he cant!!

Sorry for venting … I know this is your post PCG. But when I read your thing it just made me think of my own uncle and I got really worked up as well.

Like seriously what can you do about these kind of relatives!!! they shouldn’t even be given the “title” relative because they obviously do not care about you and your family’s well being and are incredibly selfish!!! ugh.

It’s easier said than done for us to just peace this guy out. He is the only family my dad has left and my daadi’s dying wish to my dad was that he looked out for his “poor little brother”. As annoyed and mad as my dad can get with him..when he thinks of that and the fact that the moron is all has he left at this point (4 other bros died and both parents) ..then he always caves. He also obviously caves in due to the ridiculous blackmailing of not taking the anti-rejection medicine. As a physician and person that donated that kidney.. no one wants to see such a sacrifice go to waste.

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PCG - there should be an deserted sland for these kind of relatives that we can just drop them off to and then never have to see/deal with them ever again.

If your father didn’t give him money when he demanded, do you really think he would follow through with it?