Re: Family dynamics
so sweet of you zilentzpring:)
thanks.
I know that there are underlying issues here and I cant solve them over one day. but I just hope that they can show love to each other and be a warm family. damn its so frustrating to be part of such a family. not that I came from a perfect family.
I think all families have their issues dont they...
the other day I was cleaning the papers and going through each paper to see if it was worth keeping or not. I accidently read my SIL's will that she had given to hubby. She had not mentioned me in any way. she only has her brother and parents and was referring to them with regard to sharing her stuff. I have never expected to get anything from her but it was just 'funny' how that piece of paper outlined that she doesnt see me as a family member. it was kind of excluding!When she needs me, she starts saying that I am her sister and blah blah. but I guess that these kind of situations really show you how others feel about you. well I am not surprised but the feeling of being excluded isnt really nice when you have to act like you are family....
isnt it a weird rishta that despite being in family u r not in family.....