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So hang on here…the girls who according to you are involved with a na-mehram toh ladka aagay se mehram kay saath involve hota hai?
Its like ‘‘hey janemun meray saath jo ishq karti ho tum na karo mai na-mehram hoon, lekin mujhe ishq karnay doh meri dafa na-mehrami ka masla khatam ho jata hai’’
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I think it is quite disrespectful labelling anyone as a 'pyscho'.
Starting a relationship, showing somone the dreams of being togther till eternity...blah blah blah.. using them; thier money, energy and time. In effect changing them in every way to suit you..
Then is, without a good excuse dumping them or 'moving on'..., really 'normal' or 'right'. Leaving the opposite party in the middle of a mess... its natural that they would like to know what they did wrong or what happned.
And this is not to mention that girls have never turned pshyco..it was in the uk papers this week that a wife shot her husband dead for cheating on her..and this was highly educated and esteemed couple you know...
No it was a mutual agreement to end things and then when i tried to move on he cried at my doorstep every night fuelled by alcohol. I paid for most things he paid for hardly anything, as I could afford it when we were dating and he couldnt.
HE left me in a mess and told me to 'just get over it' and when i did he was literally some drunken devdas on my door step.
Second guy...................stalker, and we werent even in a relationship.
every story is different dont make assumptions or generalizations
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This is what I was wondering.. How hard it is to switch those feelings off or put them to the back of your mind? Even moreso if it's someone you might see at college or uni everyday or even a neighbour..
Girl before it got too deep I had to leave it because I couldnt deal with heart break and upset parents and the long run it is better for me like this.
although he is a bit of a stalker atm :S
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all the psycho men are after you hot girlssssss . like woah. 
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How do you feel about that Molly?
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^i think, I am : )
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Wow
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No wonder all you girls hate men 
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honestly the way you put it really shows what your thinking is… good luck to you
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We hate all men excluding our dads and brothers 
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damn right girl!!!
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dude same goes for guys too but amongst all posts above me all were girls so relax and understand first before you take my statement and stretch it like a chewing gum lol
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if you have the guts explain to me my thinking and tell me where i am wrong
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my question to you is: if someones dad does second marriage, should she justify it? if someones brother has a number of girlfriends and treats them like ****, should she not hate him equally?
it is a matter of principle. if you agree that having a relationship with a namehram (friendship, affair or whatever) is objectionable without question then as a matter of principle it should apply to both men and women, all brothers, fathers, etc.
if you think its fine, then you will be answerable in the end.
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We hate all women excluding our mom and sisters.
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k first of all I don't know about the other people's story but the guy I'm referring to WAS psycho because he thought something was there when it wasn't. I'm against dating, so I didn't want to get involved but he started making these demands that i wasn't comfortable with and when I informed him that I wasn't going to comply because it was against the religion, he went crazy. It wasn't like he was a devdas, he's just CRAZY. He's apparently done this to other girls that were just friends with him. I was just stupid for thinking that maybe he did like me and he was worth trying to meet my parents.
Also, I agree with one of the above posters. It doesn't even have to be dating. We were just friends. And a lot of friends I know married within their own circle. They found sharif girls/guys that they went to school with and approached them RESPECTFULLY and then talked to parents and it proceeded. There was no...haram, physical aspect to their relationship. So whoever made that ignorant comment needs to stop making generalizations.
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Wow, way too much Urdu-written-in-English
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if you have the guts explain to me my thinking and tell me where i am wrong
The post you made makes you sound pretty pathetic. Joining GS just to find out how many Pakistani girls might have thought of a 'na mehram' guy before marriage? :/ You seem pretty insecure.
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EDAL?
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Wow, way too much Urdu-written-in-English
Someone other than me is very smug :D