Re: Falling for the wrong person
my question to you is: if someones dad does second marriage, should she justify it? if someones brother has a number of girlfriends and treats them like ****, should she not hate him equally?
it is a matter of principle. if you agree that having a relationship with a namehram (friendship, affair or whatever) is objectionable without question then as a matter of principle it should apply to both men and women, all brothers, fathers, etc.
if you think its fine, then you will be answerable in the end.