No it was a mutual agreement to end things and then when i tried to move on he cried at my doorstep every night fuelled by alcohol. I paid for most things he paid for hardly anything, as I could afford it when we were dating and he couldnt.
HE left me in a mess and told me to ‘just get over it’ and when i did he was literally some drunken devdas on my door step.
Second guy…stalker, and we werent even in a relationship.
every story is different dont make assumptions or generalizations