Fact: Women hate other women!

Word.

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It's true. Sisters steal clothes, and jeans...and then stretch them out

That's true but then I would make my parents buy her the same stuff so that she doesn't steal mine. It would be annoying if my stuff went missing. Telling them about what products you use is different. I wouldn't mind letting her know what I use as long as she bought her own stuff. There shouldn't be competition between sisters.

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I would just say that i think not everyone are like this. I think it varies from girl to girl.

Like i have never competed with other girls when it comes to makeup, clothes, jewellery and so on nor have i been jealous that they are more beautiful , more intelligent and what not than me.

I dont wear makeup nor have i ever been into having matching jewellery, shoes , purse or whetver. So why would i ever bother to compete with other girls? Im just myself, i wear whatever i feel comfortable in , i like being simple and natural. Maybe im khabi khabi to simple :bummer:.

And yeah if somone is really beautiful ,intelligent and so on i usually just appriciate that, like wow she is pretty, she has nice clothes and so on. Yeah of course i would think at times i wish that i had just as pretty and thick hair she does, or i wish my eyes were like hers or i wish i was intelligent as her, but there is no jealousy in that.

I do like how im, im not perfect and its not all things i like about myself,but i like being myself. I dont have any need to be someone im not , i dont have a need to try to impress or compete with someone. I just do what i feel is comfortable. :@:

Exactly yar! Compete karna hai to studies mein karo, naa keh makeup, clothes jaisi fazool cheezon mein.

Yeah i agree with you :@:. Life is more about than just makeup, jewellery , clothes and so on :p. But again for some girls thats their life :p..

Maybe its about time i experiment with makeup soon but i have no talent in that :bummer: . I think i have the tendency to put to much on because i think i have to little on, so keep adding more he he he :stuck_out_tongue:

I don't think all women are like that.. I might get jealous of someone but i don't hate anyone based on anything better they have.
If someone wants to copy me.. sure go ahead. If I am an inspiration.. I'll be extermely glad. But that doesn't ever happen :(
If my sisters wear my clothes... I get annoyed but I don't hate them for that. Sometimes I buy them things and let them use my things too.

I do dislike stupid women. Women who demand stupid things and make stupid decisions. But that too, It maybe stupid to me, perfectly fine for them.
The idea of someone copying me, never ever come across my mind. If someone likes my outfit/makeup I am always more than happy to help them find it or make it.
There is a difference between jealousy and hate. Don't forget that :)

I only started experimenting with makeup last year… coz it was my sister’s wedding and I didn’t want to have to go to a salon for all three days of the wedding and then for parties afterwards… so I bought some makeup and started practising, even attended a 2-day makeup class … and I’m still practising.. I had no clue about beauty products a year ago, didn’t have any facial cleansing routine, didn’t apply anything on my face at all… So don’t be worrying about not knowing much about makeup, its not rocket science, anyone can learn it very easily … and I think its good that girls don’t destroy their faces at such a young age… there’s no need for makeup or other cosmetic products at our age…

@ Spiral: Yeah I was actually implying “jealousy” by the word “hate”… didn’t mean hate literally. :slight_smile: sowie

I do have a facial cleaning routine , just dont have any makeup routine yet :bummer:. Well i know its not that hard to learn it how to put makeup on, but its harder to have a balance btw to much and to lil. I want to look natural :p.

Well im going for mineral makeup, my face is messed up as it is. I dont need to make it more :bummer: Only reason why im going to start wearing makeup is to hide my acne /pimple scares. Or else i wouldent have botherd :@:

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Women don't hate all other women, they only hate those who are better than them:d I have often noticed that girls/women can be very malicious towards each other, and they are particularly mean to those who they think are prettier, smarter, better than them in any way.

Often? I see it everyday! Let me give you a example that I came across today:

Even though I’m finished with my internship, I still go back to Roche (company I did my internship with) once a week coz I’m doing my final year project with them. So I’m here at Roche today, and we were just in the canteen for breakfast. One of the female engineers (in her late 20’s) sitting with us on the table seemed to think engineering is alot more demanding than any of the other departments on site. So she turned around to the regulatory affairs specialist (female in her mid-30’s) and asked “So what exactly do you do?” And she asked it in a way that made it look like she really wanted to learn about her job, whereas we all knew she was only asking to impose that the regulatory affairs specialist do nothing but paper work. So the regulatory affairs specialist talked non-stop for 10 minutes explaining what she does in her job, and the message that came across was pretty much like “I do work at the international level”… which she does, since regulatory affairs are a global thing.

But I was just sitting there at the table, listening to the two women and thinking about this thread… why do women do that?? At least I’ve never seen two men fighting about who’s job is better or more demanding!

One more, less serious, “incident” I remember from last week: One of my friends dyed her hair purple last week and got a new hair cut too. I am a strong believer of “If you can’t say something nice, then just keep your mouth shut”. So I kept my mouth shut and didn’t say anything and later on in the day she turned around to me and said “Why didn’t u say anything about my hair?” … I was like :confused: … LOL… Why did she get upset over me not saying anything about her hair??

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Women do hate other women, but I think it's all because of the environment we're in...here's some examples:

Siblings: parents can't help it - they will make comparisons between their children from academic achievements to who's better looking etc. I'm not saying the parents do it intentionally but it happens and can create this "competition" between siblings.

Workplace: Loads of women work now, but there's still a massive gender gap and only a small minority of women are in top positions. When a new woman joins a workplace of course all the other women are going to size her up to see if she's a threat to their own career progression!

Celebs: In the UK at least there are magazines dedicated to scrutinising celebs and how they look. Every day we're seeing headlines like "suchandsuch has piled on the pounds/suchandsuch is too skinny/ohmygod what was she wearing..." it's become part of our nature to scrutinise other women, and not just celebs.

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Forget about hair, makeup and jewellery...I know girls that are competitive with their pregnancies! And then after that they're competitive with what they put on their kids. For example, one girl only buys clothes from the gap for her kid. It's quite sad, really.

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^ Talkin about kids, it's funny how some women brag about how their child is the cutest, sweetest and so on. They sound as if they had any hand in the supposed cuteness of their children. I mean, it's not as if they could choose how their kids would look, and they just rub it into other people's faces all the time. Perhaps, it's an indirect way of saying, "hey my child is cute because I am pretty'. :)

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^Not true. For every mother, her child is the cutest and it has nothing to do with thinking herself being cute.

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I sooo seen that too!! This woman we know won’t stop bragging about how when she was travelling in a train in Pakistan, people won’t stop asking her questions about her baby thinking he was pathaan (coz pathaans are apparently very fair)… even if its not relevant, she’ll bring up the topic of how people praise her baby!! loll… things like “wo kehte hain iske gaalon pe to khandaani laali hai” … lol!!!

Its so true.. And so sad... Its like i dont even wanna tell my friend what i wanna wear for my wedding.. or how many kids i want or what names i have in mind because im so scared she'll copy me. Jus like she did abt the rush for her wedding.. the same name guy plz same nickname.. i no i repeating my self but it really annoys me man.. And i made the mistake tht i said me and my bf will probly do a contrast like i wear red he will wear blue, She instantly goes ohh.. well were doing that. Im like... OMGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG whyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! Ughh.. Its pathetic!