Went through a blog and this question came to mind..Would you be offended if someone removed you from their FB friend’s list without giving any reason? Will you ask them why or just leave it at that?
Also what if someone blocks your from their wall or sets up privacy settings to exclude you from albums etc., will you feel bad?
If you have allowed someone full access to your page and they are keeping you on a restricted access, it is quite natural for you to feel offended. It is childish, but human nature. Show me someone who claims he doesn't care and I will show you a liar.
Having said that, Facebook is way too social for my liking, so you can't help but put people on restricted access and refuse friendship requests from people you don't want to interact with. Which is why I am not on Facebook.
I would definitely feel bad, but I wouldn't ask them the reason why, as i would like to maintain some self-respect,and also, give respect to the other person by just ignoring what they have done.
haha this has happened to me a few times when my friends from school added me after one of my cousins told them i have my wedding pics up anyway when they added me they seen that i had no pictures up as they were only viewable by my family and exteremly close friends so they put me on a restricted profile wherei can only see there info like the grops they like etc, me being the child that i am restricted them from everything so they could only see im female HAHHHA
Agree with Sweefie … and just to add , I only keep known contacts on my list … the minute i feel someone is playing the “privacy” game on me , I kick em off my list for this reason : I hate it one way , if you cant trust me , i cant trust you either
I have deleted lots of people because they started to annoy me mainly coz of their religious and political views. i deleted few cousins too coz they were just weird.
Somenoe did ask me why I deleted them (after 4 months?), I was actually really tempted to tell her the real reason why but I put it aside and now its been a few weeks and it would be kinda ridiculous if I did speak to her wouldn't it?
My brother and I have done the delete-add-delete-add thing a few times. :/
Chances are that I wouldn't notice for most people anyway. I have been put on restricted access once or twice. I didn't really mind it though. I hardly go through people's profiles anyway. My main use of the site now is to keep track of certain links/videos by posting them on my profile, sort of like a bookmark.
I only add people I know well and am comfortable sharing my social life with. Relatives however are a whole different story, they have a low threshold for getting offended so I throw em all in the restricted pile, chances are they don't even know what that is.
ohhh and yeah not to forget ... I have a low tolerance for people who are super sensitive ... and little things can become big for them ... I restrict them for reasons not to offend them ...