Facebook...whats the big deal?

[JimmyKimble]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

I am saying if those things don't mean any thing why so much trouble giving up?

I wont have back bone to tell my wife "I cant give up my girlies." I would not want to lose her respect.

No women ever tell you to stop talking to co-worker or school mate. unless its beyond normal interaction.

@Mehnaz

The fact that he keeps bringing it up tells me he is suspicious.

now we are talking, we need to interview that chick now.

[Mehnaz]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

In my experience, the ones who are shakki and constantly suspicious are usually the ones who they, themselves, have had quite an interesting past .... hence their insecurities. They know what they did themselves, their own past harkatain, so they assume everybody else is the same.

[JimmyKimble]

@Mehnaz

In my experience, the ones who are shakki and constantly suspicious are usually the ones who they, themselves, have had quite an interesting past .... hence their insecurities. They know what they did themselves, their own past harkatain, so they assume everybody else is the same.

good lines to fight with your partner. :D

[BarbieCue]

^ But its true Jimmy... to a certain extent.

I mean some man could be a disgusting pervert himself but he would really want his wife to cover up, wear burqa n all....

[stoppit]

@Mehnaz

In my experience, the ones who are shakki and constantly suspicious are usually the ones who they, themselves, have had quite an interesting past .... hence their insecurities. They know what they did themselves, their own past harkatain, so they assume everybody else is the same.

I agree. My husband never questions me about who I'm adding or why they are there because usually it's pretty obvious when you see their work/uni info.

But he must have a few screws loose in that he never had a problem with me doing a degree which by the final year there were only 3 girls left. Or that I'm working in an all male group, with only 2 other women on my whole floor. 'Course I'm gonna have more males on my FB list.

I give him grief though, about adding family. Forget other girls or guys, family members are the biggest s*** stirrers. I told him not to come crying to me if people start making up stories based on what they see or read on his wall.

[Mc12IT]

@Mehnaz

In my experience, the ones who are shakki and constantly suspicious are usually the ones who they, themselves, have had quite an interesting past .... hence their insecurities. They know what they did themselves, their own past harkatain, so they assume everybody else is the same.

You for real woman!!.. that's a common sense to respect each others wishes whether be a male or a female.. you decided to throw the pun and act like an up tight feminist .. would you rather wreck your marriage over sajid, majid, mike ,peter who are nothing but your online friends?

[JimmyKimble]

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^ But its true Jimmy... to a certain extent.

I mean some man could be a disgusting pervert himself but he would really want his wife to cover up, wear burqa n all....
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or vice versa.

My point here is there is thing called perversion in women.
Its not that obvious and not as bold.

But its there, and WE know it!!!

Now carry on sisters. :D

[Mehnaz]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

Mc12, did I hit a nerve?

Are the people Reha is talking about married? I don't think so. In fact, I don't even think they are engaged. They are simply 'talking', at least from my understanding.

As I said before, FB is just an excuse. A person who is shakki and suspicious will be shakki even if the spouse goes ahead and deactivates their acct just to appease their spouse.

[JimmyKimble]

@Mehnaz

Mc12, did I hit a nerve?

Are the people Reha is talking about married? I don't think so. In fact, I don't even think they are engaged. They are simply 'talking', at least from my understanding.

As I said before, FB is just an excuse. A person who is shakki and suspicious will be shakki even if the spouse goes ahead and deactivates their acct just to appease their spouse.

honey,

you can lose respect in any shape at any point. There is no rule book protecting desi girls, stating "u can make your potential uncomfortable till, you guys actually hump."

I am glad guy would know what he is dealing with with out getting into commitment.

In was FB is good. :D

Give me break, you talk to second time with a desi chick she tells you "my mum is looking for rishta for me" I mean if you are so free, and just talking keep that pressure away.
And just "talk"

[JimmyKimble]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

Not posting !!!!

aadios.

[Mehnaz]

Re: Facebook…whats the big deal?

You just managed to throw a lot of keechar on a girl you don’t even know. Nice. :k:

[Mc12IT]

@JimmyKimble

I am glad guy would know what he is dealing with with out getting into commitment.

And just "talk"

You said it all.. i'm done with these pinup feminist as well..

tata

[Reha]

@JimmyKimble

Why women need to be butterflies.

Tell me come on. I am listening.
Just because women don’t talk tits and bums, don’t make them any less perverted.

Funny thing is all those women come from some certain family set ups.

Now why the hell a bf/Hubby need to take punishment if girls did not learn some basics at home??

Jimmy, pehli baat:

ghussa haram hai

Doosri baat:

I have LOTS of guys on my facebook account…from grade school, high school, college, work, family, friends, friends’ husbands, etc. You’re telling me there is some sort of perversion involved in these relationships? If my husband asked me to clear them out, I would but I would also wonder what he thinks if I say salaam to a cousin or my BIL? What kind of nasty thoughts are running through his mind. I would lose respect for him too.

@Mehnaz

er, what?

What exactly is the ‘certain family’ these women come from?

What is it that they didn’t leave?

Please inform us women.

Reha, one thing I will say about your friend, at least the guy is mentioning it to her. He isn’t just making filthy assumptions which he will bring up at some point.

No, he isnt making any assumptions which is good but the fact that he finds her colleagues being in her friends list so strange is odd…

@JimmyKimble

Reha guy is going to kick her butt soon. Stop worrying about them.

Im not worried about them but I will say between the two of them…I think he will be the one getting the butt-kicking.

@JimmyKimble

Since in the transition(immigration) most parents are so over whelmed that they can not retain they values the had.

Neither they can totally adopt gora values, which are pretty decent. As a result we get a
NASTY desi culture.

Now if those girls have a male figure in their homes, like an older brother(s) and stuff, they would know what NOT to do.

Totally wrong. You know thats a wrong assumption to make.

@Mc12IT

no jimmy.. don’t you know desi women hail from above.. you can’t ask them such questions as “what took em long to come home from hard partying” or you can’t ask them “who are these non mehram men in your FB and how the heck you know they are not filthy pervs” or or you can’t ask them “If they happily wanna be a stay home wife or not”.. now don’t be a “chauvinist male” dude.. how dare can you ask such questions you backward villager .. this is not a Pakistan.

Ohmigosh…not again.

@JimmyKimble

dude not being able to give up on guys is sort of soft perversion.

Its not about giving up…its about trust and being able to respect your wife enough to know she will not and is not doing anything wrong.

If I have 500 friends on my friends list, 200 are guys…what is the big deal? Who cares? I barely speak to them but these connections sure come in handy when you need something at times.

This job I found recently was through a connection on FB.

[queer]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

now that we know what jimmy thinks of married women with online friends, will any of the married women on his franshap list here care to comment? :D

[stoppit]

@Reha

This job I found recently was through a connection on FB.

I was going to mention the same. So many people I know found their jobs through keeping in touch with people on FB.

There is a huge difference between 17 year olds who go to single sex schools adding people they barely know on FB and adults who have made connections through uni or work.

I really do wonder about the company Jimmeh keeps :\

[JimmyKimble]

@stoppit

I really do wonder about the company Jimmeh keeps :\

Good kind. :D

thats way jimmy only got 4 ppl on his FB who are not family.

[stoppit]

@JimmyKimble

Good kind. :D

thats way jimmy only got 4 ppl on his FB who are not family.

I already told Jimmy that family are the worst possible people to have on FB.

Also, don't tell me you count yourself as a mehram to your female cousins.

[JimmyKimble]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

PCG get your socks here, NOW!!!

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

What do you want with my mozay?

[stoppit]

Re: Facebook...whats the big deal?

@JimmyKimble

PCG get your socks here, NOW!!!

Can she decipher your posts for us?