Face Value or between the lines

[Reha]

@TLK

I was having some discussion with some mods on different things and I thought that I ask you guys these two questions

How do you treat people.

1. Do you take their statements at face value or you try to read between the lines.

2. Also, do you ignore someone’s rude comment cause that person is ‘dil ka achcha’ or no

Most of the time I take comments for face value UNLESS the comment is blatantly and openly implying something.

That depends on you, how well you know them and also how far you are willing to go to forgive their bitterness. I know people who are generally very nice to me but because of their experiences in life are a bit high strung and quick tempered. Because Im close to them and understand their lives, I ignore SOME things but definitely not all. Even my bestest friends have heard it from me when I thought they crossed boundaries they shouldnt have. That is also part of friendship and understanding people…being honest with them even about their shortcomings.

@TLK

no my wife did not say anything to me, her dil is also achcha and her choice of words are also excellent.

Oh btw, how do you determine if someone is ‘dil ka achcha’. is it when you understand the reason behind their bitterness or is it something else.

Dil ka acha tab hota hai insan jab uska sulooq dosron ke saat acha ho. Jab vo apke saat acha nahin hai to dil ka kahan se acha huwa? Doesnt make sense…if he is being rude to you on purpose and its part of their attitude then their dil is obviously due for a reality check.