**Secondly most statements have to be interpreted in the context of the relationship shared by the individuals and their past history. **
.I dont expect people that DONT know the person to put up with their rude (or often times what may appear to be rude) behavior.
you both said pretty much the same thing.
does that mean its OK for the people close to us to be mean to us just because 'we should know that they are dil ka achchaa'
am I dil ka achcha inassan? DO you ladies know me? Can I be rude to both of you? will that be ok?