Extremely hurt by my in-laws. :(

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Re: Extremely hurt by my in-laws.

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Thanks for the responses. I agree with the people that say you should never have any expectations. In fact, this is EXACTLY what my husband always says.** However, you can’t help but feel some sort of expectations from those that are suppposed to be close to you? I am now a part of my in-laws family…so naturally I would think they would have visited.**

I commend you for your answer above. I’d like to add that you are very right in saying they are your family now(your inlaws). This sort of thinking will benefit you in the long run and they are blessed to have you. As far as own family is concerned, we tend to make excuses for our own loved ones when they let us down. For instance if my brother acts in this manner, I’d make some excuse for him in my mind and heart and forgive him more easily than I’d forgive a stranger. So please just forgive them, make some excuse for them in your heart and inshallah they shan’t let you down later on. At least your husband agrees and understands and mashallah he is doing his bit.