hmm so shareef gals dont get horny ? I finally have a question abt ur logic ;)
Hi Njdude :)
Shareef girls are also endowed with same natural horny feelings that the more liberal girls have. The issue is not about having sexual desires. Animals have innate desires as well that they recklessly fulfill anywhere and at anytime. But human beings are endowed with a conscience, a moral compass, intelligence, and on top of all this, they have been given guidance from Allah on the most appropriate way to conduct these natural/sexual desires.
Sex is a huge emotional responsibility not only for women but for also for men. And such a step can't be taken without the consideration of the other person's feelings. I've talked to girls who have had sex before marriage.......and while they were happy about the decision in the beginning........they deeply regretted it later on and wished they had waited. I've even read stories of more liberal girls who.....years later.....wished they had waited.
A girl who respects herself will want a guy to LIKE her for who she is as a person. A girl who respects herself will want a guy who likes her for more than just her body. A girl who respects herself will not try to prove her self-worth by reducing herself to a piece of meat. As I said earlier shareef girls have the same natural desires. The point here is self-respect.
This girl mentioned that she was taking medication for depression. Perhaps she feels that sleeping around with guys will prove her worth and DESIRABILITY *as a female. She might be thinking this will prove that she is *"lovable". Some girls who are suffering from SEVERE low self-esteem will resort to such behavior. But she needs to understand that reckless sex and love/acceptance are not the same thing. This girl needs positive people in her life who can guide and build her confidence in the healthy way..........not multiple sex partners to prove her worth as a female.
Aray app to khafa ho gaieen, i just had a question abt ur logic behind shareef gals not getting horny
I guess, we have a different definition for being horny. I have never used dictionary.com to find the actual definition of "horny" but from the experience of hearing it very often i always assumed the definition is: a time period when one desires sex.
I wud totally agree if u said that a shareef wudnt share her horny feelings with anyone but her spouse. How ever that statement i quoted was different.