You know i wasn't like this at all towards her. I didn't even care about her. I didn't love her or paid any attention. It was her who gave me all those signals started to discuss those girl magazines with on how to please your man and all that bull crap. She ignited those feels in me and when i said ok this is i can't handle it any more she goes and stamps a marriage Barrier in front of my face. How peaceful was my life back then man!!! i didn't even use to care about any girl... now she's on my mind 24/7!! And now she's avoiding me What irony!!!! But your right im not making stupid moves like that on her... Thanks for the advice man really appericaited!
Mcpendu,
I'm a girl too. And women can read women. This girl.........sounds trashy.........and she's trying to trap you. This methodology has been used before by women: Playing the marriage card way too soon before even meeting each other and getting to know each other.
What if you promise to marry her now..........and later you realize that you dont' like her trashy personality.................and then decide to back out of the marriage plans. She's going to go around making YOU look like the BAD GUY. She'll go around telling people that YOU proposed to her........that YOU told her you want to marry her.........and that YOU dumped her. Can you imagine how this would hurt your reputation? Is this girl even thinking about how all of this will effect you? NO, SHE"S NOT! She's only thinking of herself right now. If she was a shareef girl (and not a horny one)...............she would have made the marriage condition a LONG TIME AGO...........instead of asking for sex. Know what I mean?
This girl only wants people to fulfill her wishes (sex, marriage).............and then if the person can't do that............she walks off. That's called IMMATURITY! She sets conditions on people...................without taking into consideration the other person's feelings??????
Think about it. Did this girl NOT think to herself that you can't decide on marriage so quickly and that what would happen to you if you agree to marry her and then change your mind??????? She could use it against you somehow.
YES, I agree that marriage is the more respectable thing to do in Islam as opposed to having a boyf-girlfriend relationship. BUT THIS IS A GIRL who asked you to sleep with her. And so, she really doesn't seem to care much about Islamic boundaries. Is that the type of girlfriend or life partner you want?
I'm going to repeat the same thing................get to know her before making a commitment. She sounds like trouble.