Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?

[redvelvet]

@McPendo

ok so the fight happend this way! i know this girl for freakin’ ONE YEAR and i’ve talked to her on the phone every single day! She made many plans to see my and even waited outside of my college but i was like im not gonna come! I dunno she has this crappy mentality about her not getting what she wants and she whines about her future husband and whens he’s gonna be Manager of this stupid store she works in! Ok so i was you are total crap mind man learn to control your desires and then she goes oh ok teach me how and im like im no sufi just do it lol like Nike so then she goes on to cry and tells me oh there is no one for me i am all alone whats gonna happen to me and all the while im getting bored to death and then she goes oh you wanna have sex with me? like out of the bloom and im like What? 0_O Then i ask her ok can you add me to your facebook so i can see your pictures? She hasn’t added me to her facebook for over a year and this coming from a girl who told me she loved me asked me to have sex with her. So i got extremely angry at her for calling me her friend and not adding me to her Facebook, so i tell her you know what go to hell and i dont wanna be your friend. So she goes give me some time and im like How long do you need its been one freakin’ year then she tells me of guys she’s adding like crazy and they’re telling her all the comments and im getting frustrated casue im not on her face book so i threaten to leave and she starts to cry really loudly over the phone. i hang up and i dont call her up for 2 whole weeks meanwhile she’s text messaging me like crazy. So then i think to my self you know i shouldn’t be calling her all that “Bollywood Emotions” (Cause she wants those desi movies and seriels i hate them) and shrugging her away and im thinking to my self that may be i can have a really good relationship with her because the whole year we only fought once! We have good chemistry so i dunno what to do man i really like her and if i start acting nice all of the sudden she’ll think using her or some thing. Then i call her and said ok lets make a plan i wanna see you and she goes no you have some thing going on in your mind WTF IS THAT! Im confused help me out here.

forgive me for my bad English i have this really bad keyboard!

1. SHE’S THE ONE WHO ASKED TO HAVE SEX..…and you’re the one worried about USING HER???

2. SHE’S THE ONE who asked to have sex…and now SHE’S worried that YOU have something funny going on in your mind**???**

3. Do you realize that this is just a cat and mouse game that you both are playing??? The girl didn’t add you to facebook because you turned her down. The girl tells you about all these guys who are commenting on her facebook as a way to make you jealous. And apparently it’s working.

4. And now you need to figure out if you are interested in her because you are jealous…or because you like her?

5. Just talk to her over the phone and show her respect and be patient. Once she sees that you respect and care about her over the phone, she’ll be more willing to meet you in person. This can’t be shown in one day, it will take some time. If you haven’t talked to her in a long time, then I suggest you both develop a friendship again as opposed to going straight for a relationship…because that will help you determine how you really feel about her.